Fallen out of love...

@wiwa05 (230)
Philippines
September 25, 2010 10:20am CST
Have you experienced that your beginning to fall out of love, especially your in 3 and more years of relationship already? Have you felt that way? If so, what did you do? Did you continue your relationhsip with him/her? If you hadn't experienced it yet, if it'll happen to you, what will you do?
6 responses
• United Arab Emirates
25 Sep 10
I have not felt it. And i dont know how it feels. But my wife did accept that fact that she did. She did agree that I am out of her mind and heart and she had no interest in living with me anymore. She also tole me that she has started liking someone else. I tell you its a bad feeling. My heart stopped beating for a while, my breathe stopped, my eyes went blurred and i was about to faint. I did smoke a couple of packets of cigrettes within hours, i also drank half a bottle of whiskey neat. I didnt know what to do. Especially when i am miles away from her. The only option of communication was the phone. The only thing i did was pray to GOD and not lose hope. Its been 3 months now and slowly things are falling in place. I take a lot of care not to hurt her feeling or divert her mind somewhere else. I love her lots and al i have is hope. I know i will be happy with her and will win all her love again.
@wiwa05 (230)
• Philippines
26 Sep 10
sorry for that! :c It's really hard to have long distance relationship especially if your not beside her in times she needs someone to comfort her. It's really difficult to work things out if that's the case. But don't worry, just continue to PRAY to GOD coz I know He knows what's best for you and He's always be there for you. I believe that you'll be happy with her one day. Just court her everyday like you used to when you were still boyfriend-girlfriend relationship coz that's what mostly girls want to- to feel that they're still special for someone they love. Continue that and continue your prayers. Have hope and faith! God bless! ^_^
• Portugal
26 Sep 10
happened to me^^ i liked my bf too much and he was always acting careless to me. i always was there waiting him, we even lived far but i did all to make like we lived near. i waited till we talk till late at night, i became sick bcs of him, i cried much, bcs i always did sweet things showing i loved him and he didnt do as much as i did. so my feelings started to change and i told him what was happening. he started to act like cared more but was late already. still wasnt enough to make my feelings back. i really loved him. and my advise is a relationship only can work if both care so much for each other. if one cares more than the other it cant work. with time the other person feelings will change. if you are in that situation that you dont feel the same anymore you should talk with him and tell him how you feel^^ and see if he changes his attitude to you^^ see if he cares more and try to give him a chance to show but if even with that you feel nothing then is bcs you really dont feel nothing anymore. love is something that need to be cared everyday^^ and sometimes people forget to do that and love disappears^^ is a normal thing and is not your fault. talk with him^^
• Kolkata, India
25 Sep 10
decision about love has taken from heart by the situation and by the condition of time.this decision can not be as a experienced or like a specialist.it is different.If i am not in this perticuler situation then i can not say what i can do in this particular time. Thank you.
@misheli (552)
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
I haven't experience it and I hope I won't.I love my husband and I don't think I will fall out of love. We've been together for 15 years and the relationship is getting stronger. But if it happens to me I'll tell it to him as soon as I felt out of love for him.
• Oman
25 Sep 10
I don't think anyone can "fall out of love" if the love they felt was real. Sometimes, we get confused, and no matter how hard we tell ourselves that it is LOVE because he makes you feel fluttery inside, we can't ever be sure unless you go through a really tough road. I'm not saying all relationships should face hardships, but its in those instances that the depth of a person's love is challenged. From my point of view, being in a relationship after 3 years and then falling out of love for your mate means that (1)it's not really TRUE love at all or (2)the basis of your relationship wasn't as deep or solid as it should've been. Sometimes, we see a relationship as love, but in truth, it's no more than a great temporary aide to our needs.
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
there was a time when I suddenly didnt find myself inlove with my bf and I dont think what happened. Its just for one day though! ahaha! When Im gonna fall out of love I will tell my bf because its very unfair for him. I need to be honest for us to be free and move on even if cause pain and hatred. You can never teach you heart whom to love and when to end it. Just be faithful and honest is the best way to do.