someone say your bf/gf cheated on you. what you do?^^
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
Portugal
September 25, 2010 12:07pm CST
hi guys^^ imagine that someone tells you that your bf/gf cheated on you. what would you do? would you break up right away? would you talk with him and if he denied it you would believe him and be with him? you would investigate by yourself? or would just ignore it?^^ about me i would investigate on my own to be sure he was cheating or not. i wouldnt ignore what that person said and wouldnt ask him bcs he could deny and dont see that person for awhile and that way i wouldnt find out. so i would investigate. what about you guys?^^ please share^^
7 responses
@Devilova (5392)
• Indonesia
26 Sep 10
I believe with what I have seen, as long as I didn't see it I won't believe it 100%.
But still I will do an investigation with my own ways.
I won't ask to Him cause I'm afraid He will feel disappointed with me.Or anger with my friends or someone who told it to me.
@Devilova (5392)
• Indonesia
5 Oct 10
It's all not because I didn't believe with Him.If I'm asking to Him means I doubt with Him.Am I right??
It's all to break the argument that maybe will take an effect of our relationship.
Basically, I never trust so much with someone.Except it can be prove by my own self.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
5 Oct 10
im happy that you would investigate it on your own^^ yes he could be angry with you or with a friend of you that told you^^ also he could say he didnt do it and lie to you. and he could like stop to meet that person for awhile just for you to think he was honest and then when you forgot about that meet person again. so the best is really investigate on your own^^
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
5 Oct 10
thats awesome that you trust her so much that wouldnt even doubt about her^^ neither for one second^^ also im sure that for you to trust so much is bcs she already gave you many proves that really loves you and want only you^^ im very happy that you love her so much too^^ and im too happy that you say she wont cheat^^ so care much for her^^
@candyfairy21 (2039)
• Philippines
26 Sep 10
Well i'd try to find out the truth first.If it is real then i'd go. Trust is essential in any relationship and I cannot stay in one marred by infidelity. to some it all up lol i guess Take A Bow by Rihanna well say it best! hahahaha
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
5 Oct 10
im happy to know that you would try to find out the truth^^ that way you would be sure if your bf cheated or not^^ and yes truth is something essential^^ stay in a marriage without fidelity would destroy the relation actually that wouldnt be a relation at all. and yes take a bow by rihanna says a lot about cheating ahah ^^ like him saying sorry bcs was caught^^
@pretty_lexie (74)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
in order for relationship to grow you must have trust with each other, if time comes that someone said that my partner has cheated on me i would definitely discuss it with him, we are the one who is involve in the situation so i will definitely listen first for what my partner will tell. its up to him if he was just telling me all lies he better be careful for i give him the opportunity to tell me the truth coz if i found out that he was just telling lies its goodbye for him.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
5 Oct 10
thats sweet that you would ask him first^^ but is like you say he could lie to you. and if he lied maybe you wouldnt find out if he was cheating really or not. anyway if you found out that he lied is good that you would say bye to him. we must always be honest. if we love someone we must tell the truth and not lie or cheat. i just wish that noone cheat on you ^^
@Peykat (119)
• Philippines
26 Sep 10
As for me , I have a good relationship with my wife, we never had an argument about a third party. We totally trust each other. If someone told us that they saw her with another man, then I asked her personally and then she will tell me who is that guy and why she is with him. I totally believe in my wife and we never cheated to each other not even once. I will not investigate any further. We are so in love with each other, Loyal, trust, and love is one of the three things that bond us together.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
5 Oct 10
im very happy that you have a good relationship with your wife and that if she denied it you would trust her^^ is good to see that you both love each other and didnt cheat on each other^^ is great to know that you are so happy and in love^^ i wish it can last forever^^ im too happy that you respect her and do all for her^^ thats a true love^^
@goseeking (49)
• China
26 Sep 10
if i live with the one i really love
i do not believe that when someone say that
and if i find it's hard to live with ,i prefer separate
so i always believe my love
if we could not have the basic truste with each other
how could we live together in futrue
but sometimes we also sould take ontice of it!
for make love not esay break
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
5 Oct 10
if someone said that about your gf you wouldnt believe her?^^ thats too cute that you would believe your gf^^ and you are right we cant be in a relationship without trust or else it wont work^^ and we must do all to make love not break^^ we must always care and show love for person we are with or else the relationship will end. and yes better separate than live without trust^^
@dellabanedz (123)
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
AHAHAAH!! This happened to one of my friend and its really funny and painful. funny since her boyriend was flirting with girl who is 2 yrs younger than her. I thought her boyfriend is a mr. nice guy type but I was wrong. It started when my friend was busy in her job and since they are far away her boyfriend started to flirt with a girl whose not that beautiful. I told my friend about it and she said she will confront her bf. I heard they had a fight but now they are okay since her bf is really sincere in working out their relationship and Im happy for them! ^^
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
5 Oct 10
aw god. im sorry that your friend was almost being cheated on^^ and im happy that you told her about what was happening and that she confronted her bf. but she forgave him so fast? thats strange. i just wish that that guy doesnt hurt your friend again. just bcs she was busy working he almost cheated on her. imagine if she went to other city? wouldnt he cheat on her? i really wish he doesnt hurt your friend again^^
