u know i fell in love wid my husband bfore my marriage..is dis right?

Having some Indian friends, I got to know India's culture. Parental marriage does exist and when choosing a partner, both must be astronomically compatible. In short, both marry according to stars compatibility. Thus you were wondering if it was right to have fallen in love with your husband before marriage as mostly marry someone they are not in love with but develop one's feeling as they start a married life together. Well, preetidahiya, to be inlove with someone before marriage is the best ever feeling one can experience. Who wouldn't want to marry someone you don't have a special feeling for? You're lucky to have married with someone you have been inloved with. So continue nurturing that love for your relationship to last longer.

well it doesn't make any sense to me to marry someone unless you do already love them. how can people commit to spend the rest of their lives with someone on the off chance that you MIGHT grow to love them.

This is an English language forum all the best urban

I do not know. I show my BF less of the feelings i have for him because i don't want to let him know that he can hurt me. it is easy because i'm not crazy in love with him: i do care for him and wish him all the best, but i do not allow myself to go further untill the marriage. This is the safe zone for me.