When being hated by your friend, what do you do?

China
September 25, 2010 8:33pm CST
Do you have ever been hated by your friend? Do you know what feeling is that? Maybe I really hurt their feeling. But what should I do now to make that up? They even don't talk to me now.
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@formidexo (1351)
• Canada
26 Sep 10
Do you know why your friend now hates you and won't talk to you? If they won't talk to you maybe you could sent them a letter? Is there another friend of both of you that could inquire as to what happened?
• China
26 Sep 10
I don't know for sure. It's kind of complicated. Yes, there's a friend between us, but she seems to avoid to talk to me about this thing. I don't know why. Thanks any way.
@formidexo (1351)
• Canada
26 Sep 10
All relationships are complicated but if they become more complicated than we can handle, maybe it's time to move on. No use beating our heads against a stone wall!
• China
27 Sep 10
Well, that make sense! Thank you for figure it out for me.^_^
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
26 Oct 10
Hi R Huang, Well, it is hard to answer this without knowing just what you did. Sometimes if it wasn't anything too serious then giving a little time to let things cool down and then perhaps a peace offering of some sort would work. Other times if you do something that is too too hurtful then you may have to just accept that you ruined the friendship and move on and don't ever repeat the mistake on another friend.
• China
26 Oct 10
Yes, I agree with you. I now take much more care in my friendship. I won't let them go this time.
• Philippines
10 Oct 10
Yes, there was a time when I unintentionally hurt my friend's feeling and what I did is I sincerely apologized for what I'd done. It's just fine to admit your fault. You said "maybe" you hurt their feeling. Ask them why they we're hurt . Clear the air between you and your friends. You need to have an open lines of communication with them before you lose them. Be a tough man to face what you've done. You must make a move to talk with them.
• China
26 Oct 10
I wish. But the time make this thing a long time ago, and the distance, after graduating from college, we went to differnt cities. And it seems difficult for me to communicate on line with them. Now I wish maybe someday, we will meet occasionally, and I have the courage to speak to them. Thank you