Why do we always hurt the ones we love?

Philippines
September 25, 2010 10:49pm CST
From Dan Hill's song, I would just like to take everyones view about this topic- from your very own point of view. Maybe you have some personal experience wherein these lines simply apply.
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• Kolkata, India
26 Sep 10
i so not heard this song but in response :- Why do we always hurt the once we love? i can only say that it's depend on the situation which made by those loving person bothly.mostly it happening by some miss-understanding and some forgetful-ness.
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• Kolkata, India
26 Sep 10
sory friend it is "i do not heard" insted of "i so not" type mistake
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• Philippines
28 Sep 10
Hi kaushikchakraborty! Misunderstanding? That you hurt the one you love because you misunderstood each other? Or forgetfulness? How? Can you please elaborate?;)
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@harry89 (2330)
• India
26 Sep 10
i think bcoz we start to take them for granted
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• Philippines
1 Oct 10
You are right harry! We wont hurt them if we truly love them.;)
@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
30 Sep 10
It is true that people tend to hurt the ones they love. I have been living with this for quite some time. I have been deeply hurt by someone I love and I am trying desperately to get over it. At some point I will but it will just take time. I too have caused pain to some of the people I love. I think we do this because we tend to take those people for granted. We just assume they will always be there. Remember each day to appreciate the ones you love. For tomorrow is not guaranteed!
• Philippines
26 Sep 10
I love this song.. I love most of the songs from this artist. Actually I only do have one relationship in my life and that's with my partner now. He's my first boyfriend and he's my husband now. So I cannot apply this song for myself. But in my own perception, some of the couples hurt each other because they know their lover will not let them go, am I right? They love the feeling that their lover will do anything, just to maintain the relationship with them..
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
26 Sep 10
I never heard of this song, and I don't know if I ever hurt someone we love. I did get hurt once, and I just don't want anyone around me get hurt though. I just hope everyone I love be happy that is all.
• Philippines
26 Sep 10
Good for you kingparker! We always want to make our partners happy.(Try checking youtube and listen to this song). I hate to admit it, but there are times wherein I have hurt my partner (not physically but emotionally) even if it is unintentional. Sometimes we fall into circumstance, that we do not like what we are doing and it simply hurt the ones we love.
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• India
28 Sep 10
i have not listened the song. but the other part, we always hurt our lover, i feel, mainly, POSSESSIVENESS. when any one of the two loves the other in high frequency. And not getting the same or atleast a little lesser response, naturally HURTING STARTS. but remember one thing, the one who hurt a lot, will surely repend later, because of the LOVE itself, and in any case, when the LOVE is true, sure HURT is inevitable, but REMEMBER, the one who hurt his/her partner WILL NEVER HARM. that is the greatest thing so, Love will hurt, but not HARM :) if it harms, then it is not LOVE.
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