do i have the right to be not ok with my best friend?
By maebelle
@maebelle (190)
Philippines
September 26, 2010 11:09pm CST
my bestfriend is my friend since childhood, we are neighbors and we have an opposite attitude.. until now we are still friends its just that we barely have time for each other. we i was broken hearted, she was always there, but that time she doesnt have any bf. and now, she's busy because she's reviewing for board exam for nursing and she also has a bf. since then, we dont see each other already and we never spent time with each other because she's always busy with her bf. i know im not the priority because im just her friend.. everytime i invite them when we hang out they have excuses not to go. im just sad that its like that. and we only have sunday after mass to see each other but when sunday come we're just like acquaintance we dont have time for each other anymore.. i know i dont have the right because im just her friend but i dont know why i feel this way...
1 response
@ErickJ (186)
• United States
28 Sep 10
I would say that you have every right to feel the way you feel towards yourr best friend. Have you thought about asking her what wrong or if theres a problem she has in you guys friendship? No matter what, there are no reason for friends to be too busy all of the time to actually not spend some time with their bestfriend and especially if you two have had that time. You two are like family.
@maebelle (190)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
but someone said i dont have the right... i understand that she's busy reviewing for the board exam and i know im not the priority because im just a friend.. her priority is her bf... i know in time ill just understand and let it go...
@ErickJ (186)
• United States
29 Sep 10
you would have to let it go sometime. But if two people who have known each other like forever then one out of these two people couldn't be that busy. I understand that your friend is studying and is in a relationship but still should find a way to balance the studying, relationship and her friendship. There has to be a balance thats all i was trying to say. Just give her a call to see how she is doing. just to check up on her to see if there is anything you can do for her or if she needs anything.
@maebelle (190)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
sometimes i dont want to comment anymore coz twice that it happened that she misinterpreted me and i dont like to have some issues so that's why sometimes i dont want to communicate with her anymore.. and she said that our friendship is deeper than physical, meaning even though we dont see each other our friendship is still deeper that anything else.. i dont know.. i dont want to be the reason also for their quarelling of her bf.. and i am disappointed also because everytime i invited them they always decline and they always say that im already others,...
