I'm Not Stalking You

Hi - ladies do. :) We can be so involved or lost in our pain that we can spend that kind of time if we find another one in similar pain. May be we are subconsciously looking for solution to some of the problems?

@Syankee,How are you? Yeah, I like your being real, dear. I was feeling a bit weird, too.:) I did not intend to really follow her but I was just curious to see that her topics were quite similar to mine and that she posted topics that I wast still thinking of posting.LOL. What i originally plan was to look for all my friends' topics and share a word or two with them but hey, I was hooked to hers.... Nevertheless, though we have this seemingly common ground i don't think it will last for long. She might be heading a different direction one of these days.:)

@Vandy, I do agree with you, dear. Maybe it was the pain I have been hoarding for so many years that made me follow her discussions that long. I was literally unleashing everything. I was indeed looking for a solution and may be some insights to some WHY's I have with my situation. I was trying to understand my situation looking from someone else's window.

Well, I was just being careful and warned her ahead just in case she thinks I'm a lunatic.LOL. But, reading every discussion she made, she seems like a nice young girl and a responsible one. She, too, came from the same country that I am.:) Thanks, Angelface, for dropping a line. Have a good day.:)

LOL. I already took my rest, Jeb. Matter of fact, I already had my dinner, took a bath and was able to doze off for a bit. I'm feeling refresh and ready for another 4 hours here.LOL I don't find anything wrong, either. Trust me. I know it is a natural feeling that I somehow feel connected to her right now, but, it might change tomorrow. Anyways, I had a good time responding because I had unburdened myself and I earned a decent amount for today.

but inspite of that, it's really sad when the discussion-starter never goes back to interact with their responders because they'd rather keep starting new discussions. It really doesn't make much sense to continue to start discussions and not respond to them in my opinion. I have asked that question to others and have gotten back I'm here to make money. Well you earn for your comments in your discussions, I personally think that you get more when the response box turns into a discussion box. That of course is my opinion but it seems to make sense if you stop and think about it. I do the same thing when a response has interested me, I go and check the person out, and I alwaya send a friends request to them. I have a couple of mylotters that I "stalk" but in a good way. I know that they like to interact in discussions, so when am caught up on my emails then I go to their profiles and see where they have been and follow behind. Thank you for the best response award.

@Beaniefanatic, Hello there, Beanie.:) Sorry for the late response. It was intentional because I overlooked yours.So sorry... Anyways, It seemed that I do appear to have a fave lotter here but I don't. It just that there are friends here that I can relate more to their discussions compared to my other friends'. Yup, I'd love following my friends discussions. Matter of fact, they are my priority.:) And, you are right, it is quite disappointing not to see that particular lotter interact when I've shared so much of myself , feelings and thoughts with her via her discussions....Maybe, she just wanted to see or hear everybody else's thought and opinions re a particular situation but doesn't want to really voice out her own...I must respect that.:)

@Binggaling, I'm just like you.:) I did that, and that is how I stumbled upon all her discussions and since they are so few , I almost responded to everything.LOL. Mylot has offered every possible means so that we can maximize interactions with each other but at the end of it all, still, the frequency and intensity of our interactions depend on each and every user here....

Just be patient... she'll add you up eventually. =) Oh, please don't overthink things. This could lead to major depression especially if you always think of things in their negative perspective. Cheer up!

She did add me up.:) Though, she did not reply to my PM, it is fine with me. I'm ok with that.:) I'll see her around for sure. Well, she's not too active here, I guess...

Paranoid? Whoah! :) I don't think I am. OH, I couldn't help thinking about things, these are the very reasons for my existence. :) I already sent a request her way but too bad she isn't responding to it yet.:(

. You are a good friend, then, Veronizm.:) Friends are there to help each other.and sometimes, we feel the connection grew deeper into like that of a family, that we made it our business to know something about our friends here day by day.:) Win win situation. We do help them make their discussion noticeable while they are helping us with our earnings.:)

Thanks :) It really is a win-win situation. And not only that we earn, we also give the reward of happiness to ourselves and keep the bond of friendship.

Hello, dear. Kids are good. My daughter is safe and well now. Thank you for asking, dear.:) I was surprised to see her discussions and I said to myself, WOW, she is describing my situation.... Yup, I was lucky to have found her yesterday. Double lucky because she made me earn without so much difficulties. :) We're virtual friends now but the thing is she still doesn't interact.:( And, I don't think I'll be pushing too much of my luck. Will leave her in peace for the meantime. I'm pretty sure she'll be just around.:) How about you, dear. How's life been treating you lately? Always do take care.:)

You are not a stalker at all! I post at another members discussions a lot too. I don't check up on her, I just enjoy reading her discussions and posting my feedback to them. If that is all that you are doing, then you are in no way a stalker.

Hello, Kyss_Smyle. Good morning.:) It really helps that your friends here are almost similar to you. It is easy to interact with them and support them with their posted topics.And yes, true, as you get along well with them, you learn things from them, too, that well help you get by with your life. I added her as a friend but I'm still waiting if she will accept or not.:) Have a great day, dear. Take care,:)

Vandy, until this very minute I haven't add her yet.:) I am still contemplating of doing or not doing it. Besides, there's really no big deal about it.Yup, I may be able to relate to her discussions today but tomorrow might be a different story. I'm just glad that I have today to unburden myself.:) Oh, I pity her, in fact, for my boring rants....:( Take care, my dear.:)

Which is not the case, dear.LOL Sigh... I have no intentions really of checking her every activity here. I've got to have a Mylot life separate and not revolving to her discussions alone.I may or I may not respond to her again soon .:) But it helps if she got topics I can relate to once more. Easy to earn for me.:) Yeah, I'd agree that I'd rather be "stalked" than ignored.LOL Glad to see you dropping a line here, Ybong. I hope all things are well with you.:)