How to Fight loneliness?

Yes I feel that too after I finished college and no work. Just stay in the house all day. Sometimes I cry because of loneliness. I find to fight my loneliness by watching television, listening music, surfing the internet. And guess what I eat a lot when I'm lonely.

Actually, to feel lonely sometimes is really a natural thing. Life is not bringing you Happiness all the time therefore if the time comes and you feel lonely then just savor the moment because you will not be able to distinguish being happy if you don't experience how to be lonely. Everytime I am lonely, I just seek out my friends and since I have lots of friends, they are the ones cheering me up all the time. This way, I will temporarily forget that I am lonely. If ever I am lonely I really try to find the cause why I am feeling sad. If ever I found out what is it then I always find solution with it.

I think there are many ways to fight with loneliness. Yes you can watch any movies while you were alone in your house. Also you can listen your favorite music on computer on DVD player. So I think there are many ways to remove our loneliness.

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yeah i feel that too during my college days. i feel empty i feel my life meaningless, like there's something missing, i feel confused and can't find the right person to lean on. but as i get matured i overcome that feeling and understand my existence on this world. Happy mylotting my friend

you love someone and u will find no lonliness,that is the best way to go ahead and enjoy life and be happy,thanks for sharing.

I agree with Nikievill, You need to find an interest and involve yourself in it. There are a lot of things out there that will make you feel you good about yourself, volunteer at a home for the elderly, a hospital ( you can read to the patients, write letters or run errands for them, some don't have relatives to do this for them). You can also volunteer at a young persons club, teach them to do something useful, you can also keep kids for parents who want to go out in the evenings, with this you will earn a little money and you definately will not be lonely! They will keep you hopping I am sure. If you are not a people person (thats probably why you are lonely) you can join a club that does something you love to do, cycling, gardening, sewing, cooking, write poetry, floral arrangements, there are so many more. Just sit and think about it and I am sure that you will come up with something that will grab your interest and give you motivation to accept your current situation until sometning or someone comes along to stop you feeling lonely.

The loneliness you are talking perhaps is the true realisation of mind that we are alone in this world, even if we are surrounded by a lot of people, be it our family, our friends anybody when we depart, nobody comes with you ahead, everybody stop there. It usually happens when we are suddenly out of a crowd and all off sudden silence and feeling of loneliness grips you. One of the Best way to fight such loneliness is to pursue any hobby you like, keep yourself engaged in whatever you like. It won't let you feel alone ever. join groups who have the same interests as yours.

first i will suggest that do something different where you are really interested in or want to do for a long time.like enroll in cooking class since you are a lady, things that really different from you normally do better if you enroll with your friend/s.this will give you something to look forward to everyday and trigger your creative mind to work than just thinking of things that make you lonely. me, i enroll in class(CCNA training) to enhance my IT knowledge though i'm not really that lonely like you described in your post i'm just bored. 2nd, love someone,its free!not necessarily love as in couple.being in love i think is a state of mind when you accept people and appreciate them for what they are. 3rd, have someone.who?? it's up to you.