Is it right..? You love some more than you, and he/she leave you without reason.
By sourabh2219
@sourabh2219 (35)
September 27, 2010 7:09am CST
Hey all,
I am back after so long time... Because of a Girl.....But now recover myself after she ditch me 2 years back....
Actually i loved a gal so much, when i was studying and also doing job. But, it was my initial stage or you can say entry level. I met with a girl and fall in love with her, but she left me because she need security in future. As i had joined a small company with a very small package. She wanted more package. We broke up with each other, but still we were in touch with each other. In the meanwhile i completed my studies and got a good job in a good company. Now i have a good job with good package. She got the news through our common friends that i got a good job. Now she wants to be my girlfriend again. As i asked her now why you want to do this..? Then she told me that she were waiting for the right time, and she also love me very much, and waiting for me only..
Should i forget all the things and accept her again..?
8 responses
@junmae (1586)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
Well that girl is purely a "fortune-hunter' and it was very obvious. She really doenst love you because if she loves you, she will wait for the right time without living you. She wil stay beside you no matter what you had or what you've going through. That's the real meaning of love, loving without looking on the status of the other one and accepting the what your partner only has.
@angelic123 (1108)
• United States
4 Oct 10
what if she was scared that time? she is not ready? people do mistakes out of fear... but maybe you are right. It is so hard to judge her and her motives. But Love is forgiving.
@katland05 (136)
• Guam
5 Oct 10
sourabh hi there...
It's been 2 years to recover from a broken heart & in this 2 years has she ever spoken how sorry she has treated you or apologized in some way? I can't tell you what to do, but for me when bf/gf leaves you only because your not earning a lot of money is only telling you one thing, she only needs you for your money... I've been with my hubby for more than 20 years & within that 20 yrs we had periods when we both were unemployed & we have our kids too... You don't leave your partner because he doesn't have the big bucks or that high status in career, you love him for better or worse... You both encourage each other to find employments for the better of your family, or you live within your means & budget on what you don't need at that moment & what you need the most.. Because what happens if you do go back with her & later in the future again when you lost your career & you find another with minimum wage, would she up & leave again or worse when you have kids she will abandoned your family...In the end you have to follow your heart but you still have to use your head because sometimes our hearts can still fool us & is blind to the big picture.... Good luck to you, I hope in the end you get what you want dear friend....
@sourabh2219 (35)
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5 Oct 10
hey hi there... thnx for your reply.. if i tell you she apologized and came back for some time and again gone forever, just because of a guy, who told her that i am not a good guy and he proved it by some tricks.... After sometimes she one more time wana meet me and i asked her that i m engaged and then she gone forever. But Now i am missing her.
@MJNMendezabalC (63)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
......hi sourabh!well,It's depend upon you if you accept her and if you love her very much then you must give her a chance to let her show/feel how much he loves you!!!!
@sourabh2219 (35)
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28 Sep 10
I love her very much, thts why i gave her a chance and she did again same, but now she alone without any friends, even her friends became mine because of her behaviour with me and left me for a friend only, that she is saying he(a guy ) is her like brother. But you tell any sis-bro talk for whole night...or going for movie,etc.. now she left him or he left her, she wants to meet me again.. What you say, Is this love..?
@IoanaBI (494)
• Romania
27 Sep 10
Hello Sourabh! So you know your story very well.. but pretend that somebody else tells it, what advice can you give him? You know better what is best for you and how the girl realy is: maybe she-s after your money, maybe not. I refused my BF t omarry him because we do not have the money right now, but we are still together and hope that soon our financial situation will get better. When the times are hard, you do not leave your partner and come back when his situationis better; this is just what i think
@sourabh2219 (35)
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28 Sep 10
I know that very well, but you are still together. But we are not together she left me and i don't know whether she involved with someone in a meanwhile or not. Bu now i am settle with a good job and condition. And by the way, I am belong to very good family, only she wanted to me to do job, only then i started my carrier, otherwise my family doesn't want to do job, because we have good business our own. Now....?
@avic24 (57)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
Ending a relationship w/o any valid reason is not good. In this scenario, I think the girl has a problem. She left you with nothing, now that know you have a good job, maybe with high paying salary she's running back to you.It's up to you if you want to accept her, listen to your heart and it will dictate to you on what to do next.Goodluck!!!
@sourabh2219 (35)
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28 Sep 10
hey there, thanks for your reply.. now i am serious about my carrier, now i dont believe love anymore. I left all, she left me... and again she wana chance to enter my life....
@angelic123 (1108)
• United States
4 Oct 10
I will not tell you what to do because that is your life but I want to question you: What if she is the right girl for you? What if you can not live without her? What if you marry another girl and still think of her and what would be your life if you are married to her instead of your wife...
Life is uncertain... but what is certain is how you decide and what you decide.
@jefontejonB (19)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
hELLO! If your GF or BF leave you without a reson, I can say that it's not right. It's not right bacause that person can't leave you so easy without a right explaination or reason. Sometimes, we leave the person we really love even if we don't want to and we don't expect that it well happend. Maybe she/he leave you without a reason bacause she/he can't say it in the front of you or she/he just waiting the right time to tell you why she/he did left you.
@Peykat (119)
• Philippines
27 Sep 10
Ok, for me, if the girl haven't had another guy in her life while you are not together, then that only means that she really love you and waited for you for the right time and don't want to rush everything. Another thing, I think she indeed inspired you to finish your schooling, to get a better job and to become successful. Maybe you just didn't realized it yet but, you also waited for her and never stop hoping to be with her again. I think this the right time to continue what you have started before and this is your chance to make last forever.
