Let go to the past and live with the present?

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I do... I remembered when my four years live in partner died, I was very desperate and down at that time. I don't know what to do. Can't even go to sleep without crying. But even though, I still tried to go on with my life and tried to ignore the pain I felt inside. Trying to keep myself busy from work specially because I'm the breed winner of the family so I need to work hard. But then I met this guy. I was attracted to him of course. His very nice. But still grieving for my boyfriends death. He was my first love and I loved him that much. And just feels like a betrayal for me to him if I'm going out with this guy that early. My friends used to tell me to try to go out and exposed myself because" To heal's one heart is to find another heart? I don't believed it at the very first because I know the pain will heal at the right time. But then time comes, I decided to go out with this guy. Then found out I falling inlove again. The pain is gone. My broken heart is already healed. Its true, to find another heart doesn't mean to get rid of the pain but to help it recover from pain. Sooner or later we need to learn to let go from past and just live with the present. But it that doesn't mean you need to forget the past. Wherever my boyfriend is right now, he knows that his always in heart and his part of my life.