do you always want to be near your bf/gf?^^
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
Portugal
September 27, 2010 12:40pm CST
hi guys^^ do you always want to be near your bf/gf?^^ even if you dont have one right now is ok when you have do you?^^ about me im very caring so when i have a bf i wish that we always talk much and care much for each other^^ bcs i think that being away makes us miss or dont feel as happy as if we are with him around ahah anyway what about you guys?^^ please share^^
4 responses
@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
Yes, I want to be with my bf everyday. I am looking forward to end the day with him.
@Rtlsnk316 (1197)
• Mexico
27 Sep 10
Well ... I'll give you a guys response, so, you might not agree with it, but anyways I think you should know.
By the way, I do not talk for every guy, just for me but most likely they'll agree with me ... I guess.
At first, we do like to be almost every moment with our girl, the emotion of having a new love you can show off with everybody it is pleasant, can't deny it.
There would be (in my case) some point in the relationship where, as honest as I am, personal things will come up, like, I don't know, I practice some type of sport, I like spending time with my buddies, I like to go to some "guys only" event, etc.
Things like that would have to "release" me from my girl, and that's just me being me, a guy. She might agree at the beggining because she loves me, but later in the relationship might not be the fairy tale that she thought it was at the beggining, so ...
It will be up to the both of us, to either sort things out, find some space in between her and my activities to agree on, and learn that we are not lying to ourselves by placing all the attention to each other at the beggining, we weren't just in that stage where we had to continue being ourselves while being in the relationship at the same time.
Hope I'm not that confusing to you ... :)
@Jzenith82 (68)
• United States
27 Sep 10
I love and care very much for my girlfriend, but as much as I would love to spend all my time with her, I simply cannot do it lol
Sometimes I need my own space, and she can get clingy at times, but it doesn't mean I'm not thinking about her when I'm to myself, I just need some space so I can came back to her refresh:)