bf/gf was killer in the past. he/she says he really loves u would u be with him?

Once he changed we can be with him/her.Based on their behavior how much they love with you and share feelings.((We are not born with killing attitude nor like a Budda the environment and the situation changes the mind set of human beings))

Yes that was very hard to be with a killer before if we always think that he/she is a killer. Be thankful also for being honest of this man that he told about his fast. As far as I know the killer is sent to jail so don't worry he will not get out and reach you!lol! Unlike he win the pardon from the government. seriously if this will happen just try to be careful and always pray that he will not kill you. And bring him to the Psychiatrist for regular check up. Me too don't is confuse about what to do.

Oh geesh! I think i will not be able to live with this. Not that i am being judgemental or so.. but just like cheaters, i have always thought that once you are proven to be a certain person - you already are that person and nope, you can't change and even if you do - there can be triggering points... so that is kind of hard to accept.

I dont like the thought of even being friends with someone who was in jail let alone be in a relationship with someone who was convicted of murder no matter what the case was and no matter how long ago it was. I would be afraid that they would get mad at me and kill me too. I think it is just better to be safe then sorry so I would just not date anyone even accused of murder.

I wouldn't even take a second to consider staying with someone if I found out they had a violent history. If someone has the temperment to physically harm someone that is extreme, to be able to kill someone, to take another persons life...that is beyond my scope of acceptance. I read someone else's response that we all have the capability of killing someone. Ok, if someone was trying to hurt someone I loved, or trying to hurt me, I would use any means neccessary to protect my love one or myself. But to kill someone for another reason, I could not accept or forgive, or feel safe with.

It depends on the situation surrounding the murder... If these people were killed for the thrill of it or for defense. Also, has he been convicted of anything? Were the people killed people he knew? It is a really hard spot to be in. I think if it bothers you to be with him, then the best thing you can do is leave but; if there is proof that he has changed and you think he is good for your life then, by all means work through this confession as you would any other.

I wouldn't wanna do anything with a killer let alone have a relationship with her. It'd be cool though. You can make her murder someone you don't like. Lol