love vs Arrange Marraige / myLot

Finland

September 28, 2010 5:07am CST

Love marriages are now a days becoming high in number but most of them are being collapsed because of lack of them meaning of love, on the other hand arranged marriages are being vanished but up to me these are the best because there is a chance of the parents who take care can involve and selet a nice & suitable match, so what you thinks, who is the best as per you opinion, love & Arranged marriage Thanks,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

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carolbee

@carolbee (16230)

• United States

28 Sep 10

I don't really like the idea of having an arranged marriage. A forced marriage along with a forced love doesn't seem healthy. A couple should meet and fall in love at their own pace. There are enough struggles when a couple is first married anyway without having to deal with a marriage being forced. As a parent I would have never suggested to our kids who they should marry. They would resent me if the marriage didn't work out and my opinion of a wonderful man for them may have not been the right choice. I vote for the old, traditional way of falling in love and marrying.

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calebknox

@calebknox (149)

• Philippines

3 Nov 10

i agree with you, the parents knows best. and all most all if not all of the arranged marriage are the ones that lasted according to studies..

@anurag3786 (6267)

• India

1 Oct 10

I favor both types of marriage. I think love marriage is also good because a person really know to other person and knowing everything about each other. So if our parents also not against of this marriage then everything will be fine and in a arrange marriage our parents also search a good life partner for us. And before marriage we get enough time to knowing about each other many things. So I think both marriages are good.