Right Attitude Woman Towards Men
By visavis
@visavis (5934)
Philippines
September 28, 2010 8:50am CST
Moral and Fashion: What is important in the aspect of woman towards men? If we are comparing woman today and woman in the past tons of differences you can compare. Before woman is categorically decent in terms of fashion, attitudes, characters and the whole feminist figure. Today you can say more liberated which forget the whole image of being woman. Today more and more woman try to prove that they are equal to men. what is your views about this issues? Share with us here in myLot...
9 responses
@nikramos (698)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
i hope you don't take being liberated as not being decent. first off, i define a liberated woman (in it's positive aspect) as someone who speaks her mind, who has non-conventional ideas, who is very spontaneous and expresses herself openly which is shown in her manner of dressing, how she embraces her sexuality and how her views are towards men and other issues. i don't see this as "forgetting" the whole image of being a woman. it's actually making a woman more in control of herself. there may be times that we can get out of society's standards or are far off from the morals we adapted from earlier times but it doesnt make us less decent. modern times just made us more understanding and more open-minded.
but you know what, here's a secret. no matter how intimidating women have become today,women will still be women. in one way or another, we still need a little help from men. :)
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@nikramos (698)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
i don't mean to be judgmental with this women. flirting is healthy, it's part of human interaction. simple batting of eyelashes when you look at a guy is flirting. i guess what makes it negative is overdoing it.
i think i get what you mean when you say 'women are out of their decent stand...'. it's hard to put my ideas into words here because i don't want to offend some. it's all a matter of perspective. for me, we shouldn't be making too much buzz out of what others do,say, or how they act. as long as they know their limits and they contribute good things to the society, i don't mind them being flirty.
not that i go for flirting or 'indecent' stuff; i'm just used to seeing a lot women (even men) who do a lot of things far from what is seen as decent, but are surprisingly very smart and successful.
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@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
Thanks, but you know as I see and compared 3 decade ago the comparison will much greater in all aspect between woman and men... I don't know, I'm not conservative type but what I see now is always question in my mind. Where this situation going on?
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@kiergwapo (205)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
i agree with you men! Women from the past seems different compared today. Women from the past is more conservative and more special in the eyes of men on that time. Today, there is a very big difference. Most of women today have the skills that man can do. Women on the past time rather stay at home and take good care of the kids and manage the home. While today, Women is also working as the breadwinner of the family. But today, i think there are only few who rather stays at home and cook food for the family. Yes! today, most of women tend to forget of what she really she is. For me, one factor of the liberation and the change in attitudes of women is the evolution of the technologies. As what you have noticed in the past, women is very much different. I say technology is one factor that affects the behavior of women because, i'll site you one example. A television, Internet, and the evolution of all those things plays a very big part of the change of attitudes of women because through all those things, they tend to imitate what they see as what i've said, television and others, when it comes to fashion, it is also evolving because of technologies that evolve. But, All i can say that a woman is still a woman. They are more special than men. Hope you get all points i've said! Goodluck and have a nice day! And remember this, "MEN ARE DESIGNED TO PROTECT WOMEN and WOMEN ARE DESIGNED TO LOVE MEN! hehehe!
Good Day!
@ChampagneGiggles (699)
• United States
5 Nov 10
It's nice to see men who cherish women. It would be much nicer to see men who cherished our minds as well as our ability to love them. While staying at home and raising children is the hardest and most rewarding job on earth, it makes no use of the good brain God gave me. I go out and work and USE the tools God gave me to show my daughter what a strong capable woman looks like. My husband cooks, and I clean. I never cook. And we both work. And our kids are respectful, intelligent, loving members of society. So how are we worse off than the families of yesteryear?
@kiergwapo (205)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
thank you my friend! No Probz! Just don't forget what i said! goodluck!
@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
29 Sep 10
I don't really understand why do you mean by the "right attitude of women towards men" -I corrected your sentence, hope you don't mind-. Men and women are equal as human beings, so I don't see the point in thinking about something like that. Maybe it can be focused as an attitude of acting like same living beings, and sharing their duties and living in harmony
@luxlyangels (1286)
•
30 Sep 10
My view is that the western world has corrupted the minds of many decent people in our environment.
Women of the past and those of nowadays are very different people.
My friend trust me you cannot compare.
And also i think they are equal to us so they shouldnt try to prove anything.
Doing that only proves inferiority complex
@donnaphipps (145)
• United States
29 Sep 10
I being a woman, dont have to try to prove anything. It is a proven fact that women develope faster than mean mentally, and in turn, a lot of women are smarter. Not saying all women are smarter. If you look at my family, I wera the pants in the house. I dont even work. My husband works but he couldn't even tell you what bills we have, where they are paid, or what to get from the grocery store. He is clueless. Yes I play the role of a typical house wife, I clean house, do dinner at night, wash clothes, watch the kids while my husband is a work. My husband couldn't do it all. I have asked him a few times to watch the kids while I take a shower. Its like there are too many things going on at once for him and he only can do one. Which is do nothing but watch the kids. I tried to explain to him that its more to it than that. He just cant do it. HA HA. im not saying every man cant, but in some cases, men need women to do what they seem to not be able to do. After so long the woman will feel dominate. Like in my case. I am equal to a man. I can work, I can do more things than the guys I have ever been with in the past. When I do work, I usually work harder and bring more money home than my husband. I dont work now because I just had a baby in may and I choose not to. If I had to, I would do it again. But I dont have to. Fashion,,, ha ha. I havent thought about fashion in I dont know how long. I dont know why, but i believe that If i am sitting at home, Im married, and I have no reason to dres up, why should I? I have no reason to. So i just sit around in my pj's. If I go to walmart or another grocery store, i sure dont get my gucci on with my stalettos. lol. I dont know how to spell it. You get what Im trying to say. Jut because we are women, doesnt mean to have to dress up everywhere we go, and do nothing but be a house wife. There is more to life than that. If it wasnt for us women, a lot of guys would almost starve, have nothign to eat but frozen dinners, never have clean laundry, ha ha. Im not saying that about every guy but a lot, even ones I know personally.
@ustino (4)
• Ghana
29 Sep 10
Change is what makes woman today behave the way they do.Change is inevitable as we all know and as human's we always embrace it whenever it comes,compare today to our fore-fathers who doesn't know what cloths is all about only a piece of grass tied around their west used in covering themselves,they never cared how they look and where not exposed to all we have today which makes their life far different from how we live today. Today we search for the best designers to wear to look different and attractive anywhere we are,there are a lot of changes that has taken place in the life a woman and that of a man that makes us so different today.
Although this changes is sometimes good but to me i will say that it has done more harm than good especially to woman,i know this might be another point of argument here but its true.Compare the characters of woman of today and those of our fore-father's,those days they are very respective and diligent but today they always wants you to notice their existence,is this the reason why God created them?.
I don't intend to blame woman for who they are today because it is inevitable,there is nothing they can do than to embrace what they see around them,the same applies to everything God created.Change is something we all can't ignore so there is no point blaming woman for who they are today.It is civilization that must be acceptable to all, no one can change it.
We must accept that their attitude today is not a fault of theirs but was brought about through civilization that affects us all.
@Angelwriter (1954)
• United States
28 Sep 10
Sigh. Being liberated does NOT mean forgetting the image of being a woman. It has to do with tearing down some false image of women that men came up with and that has nothing to do with women. It also has nothing to do with not being decent. It is possible to be a feminist and dress decently (by whatever standard someone has). It's also possible to not be a feminist and dress in a way some people would say is indecent. You can't look at how someone dresses and tell if they're feminist. As far as attitudes towards men, what in the world is indecent about "I'm a human being just like you. I'm not inferior or a second class person you can feel superior to"?
And today, women shouldn't have to "prove" they're equal to men. That should have been a common fact decades ago. At this point in history, the common answer to whether women are equal should be, "Everyone knows that. It's old news."
Seriously, when people stop questioning women's equality, I'll go running out in the streets, dancing and singing. I might go on for a straight week. But, sadly, I don't think I'll ever get the privilege.
@ChampagneGiggles (699)
• United States
5 Nov 10
I see so many people bemoaning the indecency in the way women dress.... but did you for a moment stop to think of who DESIGNED those clothes? Who thought of putting skimpy clothes on women? Before you cast a stone at a scantily clad woman, look at the man who designed the clothes. As we have equal values as genders, so do we have equal blame in the looseness of morals.
@Cherwin2010 (878)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
I agree with you..if you compare a woman in the past, there are big differences to the present.. the women for now is more competitive than man..mostly women are having a job compare to men..more women are the breadwinner of the family..but as a women like me, even i have more income than my partner but my respect to him as a head of a family is always there..it doesn't meant that you are the breadwinner you are the head..you must always learn to have respects o each others right..