Am i right to be paranoid?
By CRSunrise
@CRSunrise (2981)
United States
September 28, 2010 1:23pm CST
I just recently found out that I'm pregnant again. However, I'm super paranoid this time around. This will be my fourth pregnancy, but so far I only have 2 children. I was pregnant in '08, but I miscarried before I even got to the doctor's office. Every time I go to the bathroom, I just pray there's no blood. I don't want to have to keep worrying about miscarriages. We haven't even told our parents yet. We want to be certain that everything sticks this time.
Am I right in all this?
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4 responses
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
1 Oct 10
Either you are completely right or I was just as paranoid as you are when I was pregnant with my son. I had a miscarriage on June 14, 2005 and I found out that I was pregnant again on February 13, 2006. Every day I was doing underwear checks and doing a lot of praying that my pregnancy would stick. Well, it did stick and my son will be celebrating his fourth birthday in less than two weeks.
I think that what you are experiencing is perfectly normal for a woman that has had a pregnancy loss.
@CRSunrise (2981)
• United States
1 Oct 10
At least I know I'm not the only one out there who is feeling this way.
@rohnyan (22)
• China
16 Oct 10
hmmm...I am worrying about the misscarriage of my girlfriend.it is the first time for us.It says that that will be heavy hurt to both of health and heart.we are the killer ,and we will never get out of bad dreams.but we both know this baby we should give up,We will go to the hospital recently,I don't know how can i conform my girlfriend,how can i reduce the worry in her ming.
Is it ok for pregnance next time?
My dear please let's face it bravely,sure we wil be together forever.
@3SnuggleBunnies (16374)
• United States
29 Sep 10
They say the rule of thumb is to wait to tell til you are 3mos along especially if you've had miscarriages before. THough it's hard to hold back and not tell anyone about the good news for such a long amount of time. **crossing fingers** for you.
@CRSunrise (2981)
• United States
30 Sep 10
We're going to watch till around the New Year before we start telling the family. I want to make sure that the pregnancy sticks. Plus, with my husband not working, we don't want any questions about this. I was on an IUD, but I wanted another baby. I was also thinking maybe if I were to get pregnant, it would give my husband the kick in the pants he needs.
@potatobutt87 (348)
• United States
18 Oct 10
Well first off CONGRATS, when are you due?
I've never had a miscarrage, and when pregnant I worry in the first trimester!!
I don't think anything really will ease your mind. The only thing would be to get further along lol
but good luck!
@IoanaBI (494)
• Romania
28 Sep 10
Hello Crsunrise! While you are pregnant, i know from the books, that you have to pay special attention to your body and be more carefull. After the experience you have passed thrue it is normaly to be worried, but if you and your husband are healty, and pay attention to you stress level and do healthy stuff, i do not think there will be a problem.
@CRSunrise (2981)
• United States
28 Sep 10
I'm healthy for the most part. I am overweight. However, I was overweight with all my pregnancies. I was actually in the process of going to the gym this time around. I didn't expect to get pregnant so fast because I thought I had read somewhere that if you were overweight, you could have some difficulties conceiving....guess not. I'll just have to watch things on my end.
As far as stress...the only thing stressful is that I'm the only one working, and money. Of course, this is stressful thing in almost everyone's life these days.
