does looks matter much when you have a bf/gf?^^
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
Portugal
September 28, 2010 3:37pm CST
hi guys^^ does looks matter much when you have a bf/gf?^^ about me looks doesnt matter much^^ actually my bf is handsome but even if he wasnt i would still love him^^ he is very sweet and caring to me and loves me and thats why im with him^^ what about you guys?^^ please share^^
4 responses
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
29 Sep 10
Hi dear,
For me look matters very much. I prefer to have a good looking one who ever it may be. It is a saying that all won’t come together. If we look for it we can find the combination somewhere. It is one life time and I always prefer to be good things around which makes more happiness and pleasure to the life. And also, it is not a thing that we can change whenever we needed. As such is the case, something is getting more satisfaction, go for it.
I just remembered one thing, one of my friends, a handsome guy got married to a girl, not at all looking good and he got a as much dowry. As per his parents request, he got married to her. But, he never takes her out, not even go anywhere together at church, movies, wedding, functions or anywhere. He never told this is the reason, but I could assume that his wife was not looking good.
However, you got the best one you like. Enjoy the life with more fun and happiness.
Regards,
Thank-s
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
30 Sep 10
Hi dear,
In fact he was my school friend and once the school divisions changed we got little separated and not in so touch with him. When he was with me in the same class, we were good friends and time moved on. Of course, in colleges and after also some time we got changes to meet. But the marriage was not known to me because for my higher studies, I was out of my place for 2-3 years and at that time his marriage took place.
However, it is a one-off thing and he cannot be keep away from her only because of few things. He needs to be compromised to the facts and understand the surroundings well. But now, I don’t know where he is and how they are because I left my native placed some years back.
I meant to say all is, if we get a companion and we don’t mentally like her/him, we may have the disappointed mind. Sometimes, we will not disclose to anybody or simply keep in mind. I think, when the time moves on, things will change better.
Regards,
Thank-s
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
29 Sep 10
aw so sorry that your friend married that girl only bcs his parents wanted to :( im so sad that he doesnt love her thats so obvious. maybe he doesnt feel attracted to her yes and thats very bad. they are together just to be. you should had told your friend not to marry her if he didnt love her. right now he is being very unhappy with a woman that he doesnt even love :( really sad story.
@lakerfanster (2577)
•
28 Sep 10
It's a very important thing. Without an attraction what is the relationship?
@lakerfanster (2577)
•
28 Sep 10
Other people may not find them attractive but I'm sure their partners do. There are indeed people for everyone.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
29 Sep 10
aw yes^^ sure thats what i meant^^ also i remember that was a very cute guy an actor that a friend of mine said he is ugly and for me he was handsome and for her a singer was very handsome and for me was ugly^^ it all depends of how we see attractive^^ everyone has their own opinions^^ there are guys that like girls very thin and others that like them a bit fat. there are guys that like more girls with big eyes and other ones like more with smaller eyes it just depends^^
@kkrnochefrancaB (34)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
I admit looks really maters in having a relationship.But you can come up on a point to realize that when you love,,looks will never be a hindrance to both of you. .