I love my family.... And it took me hard hitting families goals a Bulls Eye...

Your discussion reminds me of the image I have where I find myslef in the outskirts looking in. As to what it would really feel and look like if I actually hit that center. Unfortunately I have not the many of times I have attempted, although I have plenty of darts and continue to try every day of my life.

I think that there have been a lot of times that my family has been successful and honestly there is nothing else that I would rather see happen to members of my family than to see them triumph over the adversity that they face in their lives. There has never been a time in my life where I've been jealous of any of the successes that members of my family have encountered and I don't think there will ever be a time that I am jealous of their success.

haha =D It took u hard, but it takes me even harder, because i'm nowhere near my family goals.. lol =D I guess i'm taking it far too slowly, and i'm contented with my life so far. I dun see the urge to rush or set any family goals now, even though there are times my parents are nagging?? lol =D But i dun care, so long i'm comfortable with the way my life is now, so be it.. haha

hi dweebs perhaps you have hit the bulls eye but it was not the huge success you wanted but a smaller success instead.Success may be a different thing to others who love you than to yourself so do not sell your self too short.There are all kinds of successes and some times when you think you have failed maybe you just had a smaller success than you wanted and that you thought your loved ones wanted from you. I have always found I have been harder on myself than my loved ones have been on me. I have had the bulls eye of success in a good marriage but have yet to have success in selling my writing but it cou ld happen so am going to try again.

If you set your goals according to the family's wishes you are setting yourself up for extreme stress. It's best to set your own goals according to your wants and needs. If you seceed at these you will be proud and if your family loves you they will also be proud. Never try to be what you think others expect of you. Be the person you need to be. Blessings

Hi! dweebs! Firstly I cannot agree that the family's goals remain constant. Hitting bull's eye to succeed is not that easy. In my life some of my family goals were at logger heads with those of mine. However much I love my family, I preferred to go my way. Whenever I yielded to family pressures to go their way I landed into long sufferings. So what can we call Bull's eye in family goals?