She's not WORTH IT!
By Shearry
@shearry18 (118)
Davao, Philippines
September 28, 2010 10:05pm CST
So this is what happened. I have a friend before (a girl) who is not my friend anymore. I wanna curse her for life! May God forgive me about this.She's a type of person that will use your kindness in every way she can.One day she borrowed money from me which is really a big amount because she lost her job that time and she don't have money anymore for her daily expenses and to pay for her rent. I told her that I'll lend her the money while she's looking for a new job and she agreed with it. When time comes that she found a new job, I asked her to pay me because I really need the money that time to pay for my own rent.But you know what she told me? " What money? I don't remember I ask money from you. How much was it? Are you sure that I asked from you because I cant remember it" That's the exact line she told me and she was really serious about it!I was really angry that time, I wanna punch her face so hard!It happened maybe 7 months ago and til now she didn't pay me still.I was really angry when she also did the same thing with my friends, she also borrowed money from them and not even a single penny she paid for it. She is really a crap for me I regret the day I met her. I wanna kill her!
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13 responses
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
29 Sep 10
She truly is a bad person as a whole, how dare she approach you at a time of need then act as if you are crazy when requesting your money back.
Don't worry honey, Karma is a b@tch and she will encounter true pain one day when some one does her the way she is doing you. This unfortunately is a hard lesson to learn that when people ask you for money the answer will be NO... She has ruined it for perhaps a more honest person, but how many times do bend before people see that we are actually human. Ugh.. I hate her for you too.
If you cannot get your money back do not resort to drastic measures leave it to God and you will see that one day she will need again. Ha! Get her out of your life. See I hate her too. 
@shearry18 (118)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Sep 10
hahahaha you hate her too now! Your lucky enough you haven't met her because if you did she will also lend money from you and will not pay it too.LOL!
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
29 Sep 10
You have to have me steer clear from her as I might want to strangle her.. I truly despise people like her who forget those who helped them in the time of her need.
@gsnarayanan (1704)
• India
29 Sep 10
This girl has behaved in a way that is not acceptable. Being a lady, people may become sympathetic and help her with out knowing her character. You can always tell your friends about this lady and alert them to be more careful with her.
@totallyundecided (3190)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
Hi, Shearry. If ever you'll need reinforcements, please do know you have someone from the the Philippines to back you up - Me. 
I have also been a victim with hat kind of a friend. It was never pleasant and I was left with nothing because the amount of money that I lend to her was really big. But money can be found and Karma is unavoidable. Karma will be the one to judge her fate. 
I have also been a victim with hat kind of a friend. It was never pleasant and I was left with nothing because the amount of money that I lend to her was really big. But money can be found and Karma is unavoidable. Karma will be the one to judge her fate. 
@hurricanejie (25)
• China
29 Sep 10
Her base conduct should be condemned by everyone.Why not tell her family?Maybe it will work.Don't do anything stupid even if she is such a bad egg.Next time do not mix with the wrong people.
@shearry18 (118)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Sep 10
That's actually a good idea! I'll try to speak with her mother. That money is really a big amount for me because I did not just pick that money on the way. I worked hard for it and I'm really stupid trusting her so much.Thanks hurricanejie! =)
@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
29 Sep 10
I totally understand your frustration but you should never post on a public forum that you want to kill someone. I always make it a policy to never loan money to anyone. You should have made a written agreement stating you loaned her the money and she would pay it back. Don't let her continue to make you miserable. It is frustrating but you can't let it make you bitter. Be more careful next time someone approaches you about borrowing money.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
oh wow! how can you not remember especially when the person helped you at a very very important time in your life. She really is not a good person if she would deny that she has ever borrowed money from you. I would say well.. it was fine to be angry but right now, jsut stop being friends with her.. and also, at least all your friends know her as such and God help her when she encounters another problem. hopefully not because she has lost her friends already.
@lhenpaule (495)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
There are a lot of people like that in this world, so be very careful in trusting next time.. Do not hope anymore that unworthy person will pay you, just think that you give that money to charity.
@raviteja_ravi84 (2620)
• India
29 Sep 10
Well seems you got the old school. I was also duped the same way you were and from that day i don't value friendship much. That person made me so. People say i am heartless and selfish most of the time too but the thing is that i just care about myself more than others. Well i don't mind people backbiting behind me as better now than later in life.
I have been alone most of the time due to this reason and i find it very hard to trust other people at this moment also.
Cheers!
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
29 Sep 10
Wow, what a friend you had.That's a lot of money to borrow and not pay back. Well, just ignore her, soon you will see that she has no friend left anymore. Seems like the main reason of her being friend with someone is so she has someone to ask for a help from when she's in trouble, but ready to run away as soon as she gets the help she needed. I did experience the same trouble before, but it wasn't much money, and I learnt and never lend him money anymore after that even though he kept asking and pretended to not to know that I still remember what he owes me.
@pastorlamont (184)
• United States
29 Sep 10
Well, it's too bad that she took you for your money, but you did the right thing by giving it to her in the first place. It's good to be a blessing to other people...doing good is its own reward.
The problem comes in when you 'lent' the money...if you give your money to friends...that's exactly what you do - GIVE IT, don't LEND IT...because you wanna see their faces later and there's nothing like money to spoil a relationship.
Next time...when you loan folks money, treat it as a gift
@FFBernie (42)
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29 Sep 10
The same thing happened to me some years ago. A person use the money in our corporation. Me and my partners were angry but we never took him to court.
This experience allowed me to be carefull in lending money. I know you will be more prudent the next time some one wants to borrow money from you. And one more thing she is not worth, for you to spend years in prison...Think about it.
