love unexplained
By LIENROSE
@LIENROSE (910)
Philippines
September 29, 2010 4:41am CST
I think I am in love and I can’t explain why. Come to think of it, do we need a reason to fall in love? Do we need to justify it? Tell me, is it love when you feel your heart beats faster whenever he is near regardless of whether he feels the same or not; or when you see him smile and an unexplained excitement fills your heart? Is it love when he occupies your mind day and night and even haunts your dreams? Do you know that it is truly love when he is the first person that enters your mind when you wake up in the morning and the last person you think before you sleep at night? The funny thing about it is he is everything to me and I may be nothing to him. I wonder if I am really in love or if I am just a fool.
Love is a very complicated thing. Can’t quite explain it. And so I mu
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11 responses
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
well, you have explained it quite explicitly, although what i really think that matters is the sense of being complete as a human being that you become a better person and the mixed emotions puts a smile on your face. There is no complication, but merely an understanding of what makes us happy when we're with the one we love...
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@joddie (173)
• Philippines
3 Oct 10
Are you in love?
Of course you're really in love. It's true that your heart beats fast when he's near you, or you know he's around without looking, you just feel it. Everything you've explained, like he's always in your mind when you wake-up and before you sleep. My question, is what have you done about it?
@fourjems08 (550)
• Philippines
1 Oct 10
Hi Lien,
I say love can only be defined as true love in a matter of time spending it with that person. What you felt is just a mere admiration and a strong one. For now he is the apple of your eye, the next day you might find another one that interests you. All things will come to pass. I know, coz I've been there. What you should do for now is be happy and enjoy the good feeling of admiring someone. Enjoy life to the fullest. Make the most of it. Treasure the feeling while it lasts.
@tessa68 (2)
•
30 Sep 10
Love is really a very complicated feeling in this world.And the worst thing is when that love is only a one way traffic...and when you found out that you dont both feel the same:(....I think what you feels right now is from different level of love- not really a stable one....it might be you are just fond of that person and see something in him that you like most....
I think the simpliest way to explain that kind of love is let the time tells ,do not be in rush and leave some percent in loving yourself too.
@rakadanda (100)
• United States
30 Sep 10
hmmm,,, love. Love for all people is a very beautiful and probably could be a very safe thing confusing, would love to feel beautiful when we're falling in love at first sight or anything else, and will bother us if we have problems in the romance which we live.
@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
29 Sep 10
It is possible that you are in love but you are the only one that will truly know. It sure sounds like love but I'm not sure of the circumstances between the two of you. Do you currently date? Is he a co-worker? Or a friend? I don't believe we have to have a reason to fall in love. Sometimes that special someone just walks into our lives and we have that feeling that just says they are the one. Good luck and I hope you will soon know how he feels for you.
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
Love finds no reason. It is a mysterious thing. It is unexplained. It is love when you are not in your normal self. You find things as right even when it is wrong. You are simply loving. To love is when your heart bears fast for a certain person. It battles with your mind. As you mentioned it is a complicated thing.
@midnightbliss (541)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
we often find ourselves in love with people who doesn't fit with our "ideal guy" but that's love, it has its own reasons. you will know if its real if its unconditional and doesn't expect anything in return, but if your lucky enough that your love is being reciprocated, feel blessed and cherish it.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
29 Sep 10
hey lienrose I'm in the same situation as you...he's everything to me but probably i'm nothing for him. so as I was saying only you could realise if what you feel is love. you might find a definition of love but this doesn;t mean you cand apply that definition to all the people in this world. love depends on the age you have ...I mean you'll have one way to love when you are 14-15 years old and another one when you become an adult. as for me I tought it was only a temporary thing what I felt for that guy (the same things as you do) but here I am, almost one year after we broke up I can't froget him, I can't stop thinking about him, I feel like my heart melts when I see him...and sooo on. so yes I guess I love him :(...too bad he doesn't feel the same
@Owenebs (14)
• New Zealand
29 Sep 10
real love doesnt need explaining! love is the feeling when you get butterflies in your stomach, or your heart beats faster when your around them! it makes you feel like you can do anything, like your invincible. love is not being able o get them out of your mind, and most of the time, not wanting to et them out of your mind! you cant choose who you fall in love with, but you can do something about it, just try talking to him, see how it goes. if everything goes well, you could try something else, just go slowly, dont rush things.
