what is your bad personality that you wanted to change?

Well i am proud we can share and admitt to ourselves our bad personality..lol well my bad personality is I get insecured when I see beautiful girls..lol I think every girls feel the same..haha sorry in advance for assuming for those who doesnt feel like I do. but everytime I will feel that way I always tell to myself that "each of us has their own beauty"..and whatever happens thats life theres more beautiful to those who are beautiful,theres smarter than those whose smart.. blah blah..lets just be thankfull atleast we are contented to our look:p

One thing I don't want about me is that according to my daughters, I am very true to everyone regarding my problems or I easily trust others that I used to reveal what is exactly happening to my life. I'm so open to my friends if am financially hard up though I don't see anything wrong with it, others say I'll lost others respect and would just look down on me, but I don't think so.

I'm stubborn and bad-tempered. I've tried to change these bad habits but to no avail. Although I'm less bad-tempered as before, I still want to change! I know that if I keep becoming so stubborn and bad-tempered, nobody will want to work with me in the future! Well, no choice but I'll work hard to CHANGE!

Hey I want to change my attitude. Because I think it is not so good. I think I always forgive every person very soon. Even I know this person hurt me a lot. And also my friends told me to change my attitude. Because they told me this is not time to show mercy on peoples who really hurts you. Can you tell me I doing good or bad. What is your suggestion about this kind of my attitude?

I want to change the way I do things where I usually set aside work when it's not really needed yet even if I have the time to do them. And when the deadline is approaching that is when I cram and rush my work. I hate it about myself that sometimes I make notes so that I remind myself that I need to do things immediately.

my weakness is that im shy, i wana change it

My problem is I am always concerned with what people say about my decisions in life, and very often I swing back and forth indecisive because of others' opinions. For quite a long time I was not confident of myself since I felt that people around me (parents, relatives, friends) never stopped saying something about my choices. It might look like I was a person who could never make up my mind, but in fact I was too afraid of hearing negative comments on me. It took me a good deal of effort to understand who I am and where my advantages are, and to know how to make good use of it to build up my confidence. Sometimes I still feel a bit unsure, but it is getting better for me overall.

Same answer as our fellow Lotter youless, I also want to change my lazy personality. I'm such a lazy blob. Although I do housework every day but I only do it coz it's necessary, but I've always hated it. I usually even daydream about finding a big sum of money or winning a lottery or something and just sit and relax for the rest of my life, LOL. Another bad persona that I'd wanna change is how I can never let the bitter pasts go. I mean, I observed on myself that I can't forgive that easily, especially on the really bad things that happened on my life in the past. And it's funny coz whenever there's someone who comes to me and asks for advice about forgiveness, I'm always eager to help them and tell them about the importance of forgiveness when I myself can't even forgive that easily. Last but not the least, I wanna change my bad persona of being so jealous. I just get jealous so easily. I guess that's because when I was a kid I never get to have appreciative praises from people that are close to me. And I never get to have the best gifts during special occasions like Christmas or birthdays. I mean, among the kids in our family, I always get a lousy shorts or blouse or worse, a hand-me-down skirt, dress or shoes. Whereas the other kids get brand new toys and dolls and stuffed animals (I've always wanted toys for presents). There was a time when I asked why I can't have toys for gifts then they told me that I'm already old enough for toys when in fact I wasn't older than the other kids. So that's maybe why I'm so jealous. Wow, you only asked one and I was able to give three. I need to fix my life!

Nobody is perfect. We all have something about ourselves that we would like to change if we could. Sometimes i can be impatient. Lesrning to be more patient when i need to be is what i ould want to change about myself.

I have lots of that, kidding aside when I see someone I know, an acquaintance for example, I don't stop and smile or have a small chat with them when I am not in the mood. Even our neighbors, when I see them outside the village, I don't greet them except for the ones I am close with or had a great talked. I don't know why I am snob in other people, but I am definitely a good friend. I also want to change my attitude when I am at home, I am a bum, I entrust my meals cooked by my sister in law or my mother, I only clean my room. I just eat, clean a little bit, watch tv and sleep.

I think the bad persona that I wanted to change is my laziness to study. I am a type of person that hates to study. May be that's the reason why I got a low grade. My parents, keeps on telling me that I need to study so that I could get a high grade but then its hard to do it. I felt bored in studying and so I ended up into listening to music. Right now,I am trying to cope up with this habit because I've just realize how important studying is. Even though I have a hard time to get it, but still I force myself to study for me to stop my bad habit.

my boyfriend's complaining about me being so moody & hard headed. sometimes he's fed up. i loved him so much that's why i'm trying to resist it when he's around :)

My bad personality is indolent.It is very hard to change it.

the hard thing that i want to change my personality is really easy change mood and absolutely high temper emotion,but i try to control it ,because how can i do something is my responsibility in bad mood,it's suddenly makes me hard to think

I am a lazy bone. I want to change my this bad personality. I don't like doing the housework because it is tiring and boring for me. I love China

hello jaijaye, I do have a short temper at times if I get jumped by a problem or my children run me ragged etc... Yes, I am hard headed too and driving to fast many speeding tickets etc. but they are all paid in full. Since I am in 40's I am driving slower now go figure right. Thanks and have a great day! Sincerley Unique16

I think that sometimes I'm ignorant to others' feelings while pursuing success. I guess I have to change that before I lose all of my friends. No, it isn't easy. But I'll try. It's the trying that counts.

Everyone of us has a bad personality.I wanna share my bad persona that i wanted to alter.I admit that i am lazy,lazy in doing my assign task.I am also a hard headed person.Lots to mention but of all those things i have,i am trying to change my bad persona to be a good one in the future,.

sometimes i can easily judge a person just by looking at them, the they talk, the way they move just like that! i hate it because I dont even know them and I dont have the right to judge them anyway, but sometime i dont really mean it, i dont intend to hurt other's feelings, all those judgement are kept within myself, so what they dont know wont hurt them. lol

actually it is not the bad persona that i want it top change it is the good.... my personality being so good natured... because i was tend to be abused by many that sometimes makes me hurt already....