do you sit?
By Kumar1232009
@Kumar1232009 (1215)
Spain
September 29, 2010 11:54am CST
i don't sit and i always do something to get inspired. i mean do you sit if you are feeling down and be unhappy?
it saddened me to see my friend sitting at one corner of his appatment. smoking a lot, thinking too deep.. his personal problem made him feel helpless and depressed! 
but he's lucky im always there he can count on...now, he's almost okay...
why is one person positive (like me lol) and another feels depressed and helpless?
do you have the ability to create something from nothing? i don't give up even when it seems hopeless as i refuses to be depressed and feel sorry for myself...
so when things are not going well with you, how do you react? do you smoke a lot and sit at one corner of your flat like my friend of mine? who will come and pick dropped esteem of yours?
but he's lucky im always there he can count on...now, he's almost okay...
why is one person positive (like me lol) and another feels depressed and helpless?
do you have the ability to create something from nothing? i don't give up even when it seems hopeless as i refuses to be depressed and feel sorry for myself...
so when things are not going well with you, how do you react? do you smoke a lot and sit at one corner of your flat like my friend of mine? who will come and pick dropped esteem of yours?2 people like this
5 responses
@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
2 Oct 10
Hiya kumar,
You sound so very cheery today from what you are writing here. Your Friend has one way of reacting and you another. Well you can help him but wait for it maybe one Day he might be able to help you when you cannot help yourself for whatever reason. You might find yourself in his situation of feeling really down too.
Hey but I am really glad that you can pick yourself up so many times and get up again and keep going that is more or less what I am like.
Although I do have my odd bad Day too but it does not last long.
Sure he is glad to have a Friend like you Kumar to cheer him up that´s the way to be no matter what.
Take care now and have a great weekend.
@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
31 Oct 10
Hiya kumar,
At least he is back in a good frame of mind again. That is the best foot to start off on. Your Friend is lucky to have you around also. I know I said that before but I will say it again. A Friend like you is needed for someone like this who can´t see his way clearly all the time. Maybe another time you might need him also. Also I reckon I said that as well. No matter could come a time when he can help you out instead you never know what can happen.
@Kumar1232009 (1215)
• Spain
7 Oct 10
Hola Sra.,
Indeed, that cheerfulness carried these fingers up and grabbed this nasty keyboard and yes had managed to drive this shouts here. Don't know but I always have the tendency to pity others especially to a close friends in times of their troubles. But of course, I would not just be carried away by not thinking wise. Minding my own business could stop me from feeling happy and that I couln't be cheerful the whole day you know. Just don't know if it is our responsibility to offer them help in times like this. Although I can help him even without helping him as it will give them more sense of responsibility.
Now, at least he is normal and back to work as usual.
Just don't know if it is our responsibility to offer them help in times like this. Although I can help him even without helping him as it will give them more sense of responsibility.
Now, at least he is normal and back to work as usual.
@Kumar1232009 (1215)
• Spain
22 Nov 10
Sra.,
Thanks.. Although some disappears when time of troubles.Lol... Indeed, we're not supposed to be ungrateful to the persons who have helped us so we will succeed...
@JudgeIronFist (2472)
• Singapore
30 Sep 10
When I feel down or am upset, I'll sit down on my bed but I don't smoke because I hate it. I'll sit down and think of what I had done to deserve such bad endings. Sometimes when it gets serious, tears will flow down a little bit. I'll think of all the odd-job labourers, thinking of how hard their job is and why I'm not working hard enough in the first place. So sometimes when you sit down, you can think of a lot of things and you can sort yourself out. It does work, trust me. I only sit down when I'm tired or upset about things.
@Kumar1232009 (1215)
• Spain
30 Sep 10
it really needs for us sometimes to be very comprehensible to others. sometimes we really need to listen to our hearts and ask ourselves what might be the best solution for our problems. although crying won't solve any kind of problems, it will lessen the burdens inside.. we all have our downside and sometimes our expectations even exceed and that we're on the downside and feeling down too.. other times the system may push us to do something beyond what the situation calls for leaving all us too stressed out. it can be physically and demanding too leaving us sometimes overwhelmed...
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Sep 10
hi in that I am here where I do not want to be and have been here a whole helluva longer than was suggested, I could bawl all day, or sit and gripe or be sourfaced and pruney but no I hate being like that. so I dig down inside me, make me happy myself, and smile as once you smile good feelings will bubble up inside you and others will smile back and life'
is again good.feeling down and depressed just drags all the good feelings out of you and leaves you tired and grumpy.So I think about being happy and about being glad I am alive no matter where I am, then good things do happen and all is right with my world.oh and I have never smoked and am not going to start now either.lol.
@Kumar1232009 (1215)
• Spain
29 Sep 10
Ms Hatley!
sitting being productive, active, talkative is a different story of course..whatever was suggested where you do not want to be, i knew you re-started up so intelligently whatever your condition now is..i admire you.failure only becomes failure if you give up. so if you smile and just do something good, productive and just be active, you will be happy in the end...
if i fail, feeling down and unhappy, i knew those are just steps towards success..
sitting being productive, active, talkative is a different story of course..whatever was suggested where you do not want to be, i knew you re-started up so intelligently whatever your condition now is..i admire you.failure only becomes failure if you give up. so if you smile and just do something good, productive and just be active, you will be happy in the end...
if i fail, feeling down and unhappy, i knew those are just steps towards success..
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
29 Sep 10
I sit when I am doing something that is relaxing to me. Otherwise, i always seem to be on the move. If i am feeling unhappy or depressed about something, i usually don't care about sitting down. I may sit if i am deep in thought about something.m When things are going my way, i like to feel energized and i can't be still.@Kumar1232009 (1215)
• Spain
30 Sep 10
indeed, too much sitting also can cause some diseases... so it is always better to be on the move... i work in the office and i can't sit the whole 4 to 8 hours. also if i feel like smoking i go down using the stairs. at least that only a several turn and curves from the 5th floor...
@princess8881 (1630)
• South Korea
29 Sep 10
well your friend is so lucky to have you..thumbs up..thumbs up IS he a boy too?or a girl just wanna know if you dont have some hidden agenda 
..haha im just kidding..
anyway lets get back to the question when im lonely,or depressed..I just lay down and hug my favorite pillow..otherwise I will eat lots of chocolate or icecream even though its winter haha..whatever sweets I can find..
well your lucky to have that positive traits keep it up:) 
IS he a boy too?or a girl just wanna know if you dont have some hidden agenda ..haha im just kidding..
anyway lets get back to the question when im lonely,or depressed..I just lay down and hug my favorite pillow..otherwise I will eat lots of chocolate or icecream even though its winter haha..whatever sweets I can find..
well your lucky to have that positive traits keep it up:) @Kumar1232009 (1215)
• Spain
29 Sep 10
Hi Princess,
actually i've said several times.
hidden? hu, that would be interesting for not being sensible at that point of time (if) just in case 
really? but you look so fit and very sexy. i knew some girls when they eat a lot of sweets they would be in trouble for conciousness as they could expand.
yes without me he couldn't see himself perhaps...
hidden? hu, that would be interesting for not being sensible at that point of time (if) just in case
really? but you look so fit and very sexy. i knew some girls when they eat a lot of sweets they would be in trouble for conciousness as they could expand.
yes without me he couldn't see himself perhaps...