loss of a child who has been long awaited
By rakadanda
@rakadanda (100)
United States
September 29, 2010 8:23pm CST
Losing a child is very painful for me, a figure that cute baby twins who had long been my day, now leave me, it was very sad and my inner torment. Perhaps for God is the best for me and my family, and hope they settle down there and placed in a very beautiful and comfortable.
Still miss you baby
4 responses
@tinkerputt (33)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
i am sorry for your loss. just less than a year i also went through the same situation, and it took me months to get over it, and until now, it still hurts me whenever i think about it. be strong, God has plans for you and for your twins, maybe it's not yet the right time, but soon they will be back to you.
@rakadanda (100)
• United States
30 Sep 10
Yes, God is planning a good thing for me, but it took time for me to get rid of this pain.
@tinkerputt (33)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
it really is painful. just don't let the pain turn into hatred.
as what i have been told, it is always better to voice out your feelings instead of keeping it inside, makes you move on faster
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
I know how it feels my dear. I had a miscarriage 2 years ago. Even though, I have the baby in my tummy for just two months, I still did grieve. It was a planned pregnancy, so it really hurt. I still think about her. She should have been two by now. I'm still waiting and praying for another angel to come. Be strong dear.
@rakadanda (100)
• United States
30 Sep 10
It is really very painful even though it implies a new age of two months, but we must remain sincere and patient. Yes we must be strong to face it.
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
30 Sep 10
I the can surely relate to your pain. It has been 12 years, but I still grieve over the loss of my infant son. The pain still feels fresh in my heart, although I know that God has a reason for everything He does. I cannot say that I understand it, but I know that He has His reasons and my son is in the only arms that could ever love him as much as I do because he is in the arms of the Lord.
My heart goes out to you because I can understand your pain. Please know that you are not alone in this.
@rakadanda (100)
• United States
30 Sep 10
sometimes I feel not sincere on the passing of both of them, but if you remember to god I'm sure if my baby would be better located beside Him
@kalyani1234 (637)
• India
8 Apr 11
Hello rakadanda, I am really truly sorry for your loss and I know exactly how you must be feeling because I lost my unborn son just a week before he was due three years ago. God surely has better plans for your twins and they are safe and happy with Him. I am very sure that you will find the strength and faith to cope with this loss.
