Would You Dare See Me?
By eurekafemme
@eurekafemme (5876)
Philippines
September 29, 2010 9:53pm CST
I must be bored and wanting some company today or for the longest time.
I haven't heard anyone, except Richnai(?) posted her that she/he eventually saw a lotter and been personal friends from then on.
So, if you'd be given a chance and an opportunity to see me, would you ,or any lotters you get so "acquainted" here, convert virtual friendship to being personal friends?
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16 responses
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
30 Sep 10
Hi Eureka!
I would love to meet a wonderful friend like, at the first available opportunity, though we live in different countries. It will be a dream come true if I happen to meet you. You are gem of a person, whom I came to know through mylot.
So will you welcome me?
I always think about the possibility of meeting mylot friends in real life, however, this dream has not yet materialised despite my wishes.
Have a great day!
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
1 Oct 10
Hi dear eureka!
Please do not get confused by the 'baby face', I myself cannot tell where my real face could be called as a 'baby face', it is for you to decide. Therefore, am sending you my photograph to asecertain how I look (please do check your mails).
It is heartening to hear that I will be welcomed with open arms, if I happen to meet you.
I welcome your idea of converting the virtual friendship into a real and everlasting one (by the way I treat you as my real friend, since the beginning of our friendship and do not think ever that you are like a virtual friend). I share my ideas and experiences with you, as I would do with a real life friend.
Have a great day!
Deepak
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
4 Oct 10
Thanks for the effort of making it sure I read your response here. :) You are one patient friend, Deepak. I'm truly glad I'm one of those Mylot users who became friends with you.
Take care.:)
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
Ah, there you are, dear. It is so nice to see your baby face again. :)
You are one of my favorite friends here that I am so eager and so excited to meet.:) I'm not exaggerating but given the chance, I'd be welcoming you with open arms.Always, my dear. LOL
I can honestly say that being your virtual friend helps me a lot to be who and what I am here in Mylot and I am not scared to carry our virtual friendship into a real person to person connection.
Who knows ,dear, sooner or later, that dream of yours will come true.:) Oh, I'd be glad to be one of those lotters to have a glimpse of your baby face.LOL
And, I'd love to say thank you to you personally, too.:)
Always have a wonderful day, dear.:)
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@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
Well why not? when? but then again it's going to be awkward right? what are we going to discuss? after saying hi and hello what comes next? a lull? and then "goodbye nice meeting you" . Those are the things that cross my mind, i want to meet fellow lotters as well but i think it's easier said than done but i could be wrong. One of the members here already suggested for members to meet at MOA and it has not gotten anywhere and i think the main reason is apprehension because let's admit that we may share secrets here but it's a fact that our true identity is hidden. But i'm always open to the idea of meeting friends i met through the world wide web because who knows we could meet someone we could end up as true friends in real life.
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
Really, Ybong? You have had an eye ball before?
THat is too bad that it had gone wasted. I'm not sure really if I can agree with that little sentiment. Some people are just too shy in person and or sometimes they are disillusioned about the unseen friend once they saw them already.
I never felt awkward meeting someone in person but been interacting for quite sometime. Maybe, it is not my cup of tea to just stare (?) and let the time pass me by without grabbing the chance to really speak to a would be nice friend. I couldn't be sure if I'll share that same sentiments...:)
Maybe, if we indeed have a chance then we should try to meet up and see what will happen. It could be a different story.:)
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
1 Oct 10
Neither do I. Though I got invitations but it seems that they feel discourage to see me once I told them that my kids will tag along.LOL
I can not really tell that I'm a good conversationalist but given the job I used to have , I have learned to adapt to such sudden encounter.:)Besides, I'll not encourage myself meeting someone when I knew all along that we will be both bored.
If ever, I'll be the driver and you'll be the passenger , relax and enjoy the ride.:)
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
1 Oct 10
I haven't tried meeting someone i met through the internet. I have a lot of friends in my facebook and friendster accounts but they are former classmates and colleagues that i've personal known. The other friends i've got are those here in mylot who are all virtual. I not really good at conversations in fact people who'd even mistake me as a snob. I really admire those persons who can easily make people at ease and start a conversation with a total stranger as if they've known each other for a long time already. Maybe you're one of those.
@zoean_arch_27 (297)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
Meeting with strangers? Yes, very interesting. I love to have a new friend in different ways. Virtual friend to being personal friends is very interesting.
@zoean_arch_27 (297)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
Yes your right, by the way, you look like your from Philippines, same as me. But I'm working here outside the country. I hope we can met when I go back there.
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
10 Oct 10
Hi there again, Zoean.:)
Sorry for the late response.I was kind of busy with other off line things.:(
Yes, I am from the Philippines. So, you are a kababayan, huh.:) I'd surely be glad to meet you one day. Just shout it here once you set foot in our land again.:)
Ingat ka palagi dyan.:)
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
Couldn't agree with you more, Zoean.:)
It is interesting indeed especially with those you have a connection with even just virtually. It would e great to have them as real personal friends.:)
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
If there's an opportunity to see you, why not?
To see is possible if you give me a chance. Because were near each other. Your in Quezon City and am from manila...
But if your not given me a chance for being accompany in some instances. I don't know if we see each other...
Have a nice day!
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
8 Oct 10
It's my pleasure to know about your interest, my friend. But don't worry I don't force you to see me or going to see you.
It's much better if you invited me but as you said you can't and I respect that...may I know where in quezon city you live...I'm here in Sampaloc
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
Well, that would be a great thing to do , perhaps, Aerous. I mean to see you finally. Of course, I'd love to see you as well as other lotters, too. Perhaps, someone from Manila can organize a get to know each other for all mylotters from Manila.
I can not invite you to come over my place because I don't want to spread rumors that I am entertaining suitors still.LOL.
Someday, perhaps. :)
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
10 Oct 10
For the meantime, we can interact and be good friends here in Mylot, Aerous until such time that an elder from our country organized a get together party for all Mylot Philippine users.:)
I am just here in New Era. You are from Manila proper pala. I hate the traffic there... :)
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
Hello EurekaFemme,
Quezon City isn't that far unless i know a short cut from Cavite, been a while since i rode jeeps like Proj. 2 to 3 or something. But i haven't been that far since my brother moved here in another subdivision. you know, this reminds me, they were a lot mylotters back then who wanted to have an eyeball. unfortunately, due to busy schedules, they didn't pursue, even didn't talked about it here
But I am a bit different in real life as i don't look smart in my figure. I don't know, maybe am not ready. unless you become my text mate that, it would make me feel little less worried seeing a mylotter in person
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
1 Oct 10
to be more convenient, if you want, you can add me in facebook. there, i can speak tagalog
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
4 Oct 10
That would be a great thing for a start. I am presuming that you will send me your account ID there so I can send you a friend's request.
I'll be waiting for it, then. Have a wonderful Monday.:)
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
Oh, it is really far, Knight. And from Cavite, you only have to take three rides to get to my place.:)But since it is obvious that you are a man, I will not invite you to come over. It is a big no to my husband...
I hope one day, the more senior mylotters from the Philippines will soon find a way to gather all of us so that we can have a grand eye ball.
It is going to be exciting meeting everybody and associate them with their thoughts/feelings they've shared with you in Mylot.I'd love to meet other lotters in person.:)
As for you, Knight, looks can be deceiving and mind you that you are not the one who is going to tell if you are smart looking or not. The beholder has the sole power and authority to do that.:)
So, you are proposing that we take this thing slowly. Start as text mates first, then from there, things might develop into something more comfortable, ei.:)
That is seemingly the trend nowadays. But, I do agree with you on that, too. It will help having that little more personal connection through text before further jumping into a more deeper friendship. It will give both parties the chance to calculate the person's character.
No need to fear when we eventually see each other, Knight. I don't look smart enough, too.And, I'd love to take you as a friend however you look.:)
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
4 Oct 10
I have checked your profile and we are just a boat away from each other.LOL
Perhaps, it is possible. Who knows. I'd be glad to be your friend, too. :)
I do agree that it is exciting to have more friends from across the globe whom we can share everything, well, almost.:)
Have a great day, Aevans.:)
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
10 Nov 10
hi jo-an. well actually, i have been going back and forth to manila and cebu for almost two months already. if you may just noticed my posts on the other site. zayzay is at this moment, while making this post, at st. luke's medical center in quezon city, for his sleep study. i really wish i can see more of my online friends from manila, see them in person. actually, i have met with jaiho with another friend of ours on fb. and dhangski who is not that active at this time on mylot. if we find the chance, i also hope to see you there.
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
12 Nov 10
Hello, Neil. I'm glad to hear that Zay's treatment has started. :)
It'll be my pleasure to see you, Neil. I hope we can really meet before your family goes back to the province. I'd love to see Zay, too.:)
You can send me (thru mobile) if ever you have another schedule at St. Luke's. I might be able to drop by. :)
@JudgeIronFist (2472)
• Singapore
30 Sep 10
Sure! Why not? It's gonna be interesting if I could meet someone who is also from Mylot. It'll be nice if I could meet you accidentally, when we talk and you say:I'm from Mylot. Oh that'll be very fun!!!
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
Yup, it is going to be fun and exciting meeting someone from this site, JudgeIronFist.:)There are a lot of really interesting people here and I am too curious to know more about them especially that they've already shared some of their thoughts with me. It'll be great to rub elbows with them, too.LOL
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
That is great to know, Shibham that you are willing to deepen the friendship we have. I'm willing and will not hesitate, either.:)
Like you, I have quite a number of lotters with whom I'm exchanging personal mails ans hared my thoughts and feelings not just here in Mylot but in my private world as well.
I hope we'll be given that chance, indeed ,to see each other in person.:)
Enjoy your day, dear.:)
@kyss_smyle (166)
• Philippines
6 Oct 10
Most of my personal friends have gone abroad. I would love to meet a new personal friend especially with mylotters with whom I confided my problems and with whom I shared my thoughts and feelings to.
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
Hi, Kyss_smyle.:)
We are on the same boat. I only have few good friends but they've all gone abroad, too...:( Sigh.... I am missing their company and the way I am when with them...
Yup, new friends, real ones, would be great to have. And, God's willing I do hope there are lotters who are one of those kind. I'd be glad meeting a smart lotter like you.:)
@titaniumpen (676)
• Hong Kong
30 Sep 10
Maybe, but I'll try to verify your identity. Your picture could be phony, and your country location could be faked. You can be using a faked IP address, and you could be a serial killer, for god's sake! Just joking, but the internet is full of bad guys.
Maybe I'm too suspicious because I just watched a TV programme about online friend-finders.
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
Sigh..... that's what you get from watching too much tv ,dear.
Yes, nowadays we can't afford and risk our lives being friends with a stranger. We must be cautious for our own safety. I can't blame you for feeling that way and if you intend to do that before meeting up with me.:) I might be a serial psycho killer.LOL
But,I'll be the psycho you'll feel safe to have as a friend.:)
@katland05 (136)
• Guam
30 Sep 10
eurekafemme hi...
Yes, that would be exciting to meeting some of mylot friends in real person... I know for those that live in the same state or close by can easily meet for lunch or hang out together, or go out as friends & chat about discussions here on mylot that is awesome... But for someone like myself haven't met anyone here from my country guam & I usually stay at home during the day & have only my computer to communicate with friends from here at mylot... Been trying to get friends & family to signup here at mylot but haven't had any luck yet, they're mostly checking others in facebook or twitter... Hoping & excited to find out if admin would agree to this great idea... Have a great day mylot friends....
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
Hi there, Katland.:)
Thank you for dropping a line here. :)
This is more probable perhaps for those who have offline jobs where they can meet up even after works but for some people like you and myself who stay at home to take care of things, then, we will be waiting for an opportunity to come our way to meet up with our mylot friends.
I've seen other lotters from my country ,Philippines, that they also live in the same city where I am but we really don't see each other nor some of them I already have interaction. I'd be glad to rub elbows with those people I get to talk here. And to know them a little step ahead would be a great experience, I guess.:)
I hope, too, Katland. Have a great day ahead.:)
@jaijaye (168)
• Philippines
1 Oct 10
Hello there eurekafemme. I'd rather too see you too and have friends with you. I could add you on my YM or my facebook account. Have a great day ahead.:)
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
4 Oct 10
Hello, Jaijaye.:)
I'd be welcoming you whole heartedly to my circle of friends. And, I'll be looking forward to hear more from you from this day on.:)
I'll send you my FB account thru PM.:)
@koAebryant (358)
• China
1 Oct 10
Yes,if I have the opportunity ,I will.We are good friends in mylot. why not make friends in real life.And we can communicate with each other face to face.
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
1 Oct 10
Yes, you are very much right about it. If you can pull out a friendship with that person virtually, it is a possible thing that you'll get along fine, too being in persons. :)
It is better to know our friends' faces than just wondering what they look like.:)
@Ramaditya (1227)
• Indonesia
30 Sep 10
Sure! Why not? I am always wanting to meet my virtual friends, to know them better, especially those from abroad. That will be interesting to talk even through video chat or something like that, and I believe it will be even more interesting to meet in person.
So, let's be friend, then.
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
Hi, Ramaditya,:)
I couldn't help agreeing with you that there are virtual friends who really are interesting that we do want to meet them and further deepen the friendship. The more we talk to our virtual friends, the more we get connected to them. With that, it seems that meeting them is the best thing to do.:)
Why not? I'll be your friend, then.:)
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
Hi there, Shav.:)
We are seem so busy nowadays that having a social life is very impossible.... Sigh... First thing comes first, then. :(
I'm pretty sure, one day, you'll get to meet a lotter. :)