Would you say sorry to a person though you're not the one started the argument?
By blue_raine
@blue_raine (257)
Philippines
September 29, 2010 11:31pm CST
Circumstances like this, just happened. it just explode and there you go, arguing with someone. but, are you gonna say sorry to that person after arguing?
8 responses
@Ramaditya (1227)
• Indonesia
30 Sep 10
Yes. I will. In my religion, people that say sorry for the first time is considered to be equal with a brave hero. Plus, wrong or not, the business is between me and my God. So, I care more about my personality than my reputation, even when someone makes fun of me when I ask for apologize first.
I will also do that to calm the situation down anyway.
@blue_raine (257)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
very humble! that's good. though sometimes it's really hard to say sorry but there will be no argument if you did not answer back. so that's good.
@blue_raine (257)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
you're like of my friend. he'll never say sorry if he knows he's right.
@Bibispark2 (195)
• Nigeria
30 Sep 10
anybody that loves peace is always interested in saying am sorry...no matter what,just to be happy with his/her neighbour
@Bibispark2 (195)
• Nigeria
30 Sep 10
yeah....if you are a peace keeping person, you would say sorry...just to make sure everybody is happy
@Simon1223 (903)
• China
30 Sep 10
It depends. Personally speaking, I'm not the person who like to start an argument. In my view, you're unable to convince others of what you said by means of argument. The only outcome of argument is to force others to put more faith in their own opinions. If I start an argument, I will say sorry to others if the argument doesn't refer to the issue of principle.
@bautistaanna04 (306)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
if you had a mistake, apologize. anyway, arguments usually don't start without both parties making mistakes. usually, both have things that they should have done so fights won't start.
but if the cause of argument is something so simple (like the other party getting mad about a simple stuff or dumb reason) and you think you are not at fault, it's okay not to apologize.
