Don't add me as your friend in mtLot if...
@euniceeleanor (5967)
Singapore
November 17, 2006 10:25pm CST
(i'm sorry! i posted this discussion yesterday and have received some responses from my friends, but is gone today, so i got to posted a new one).
it is going to be a one way kinda friendship. having friend in mylot is suppose to be 2 way, i respond to your discussions and you respond to mine. i have some 'friends' in my list that dont do anything except to 'receive, receive and receive'. I'm so so sick! So, now, if you share the same thoughts as me, pls add me as your friend..if not, pls move on. i have some friends in my list who are wonderful and helpful, dont get me wrong...this is just for me to vent out my frustration at some others who are always at the receiving end. Thanks!
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@heartonfire (4119)
• Denmark
18 Nov 06
you are so right...i don't know if i managed to get to you while responding to all of my friends discussions because at some point i stopped..and you knwo why..because i brought back to life all their old discussions,even those with 0 responses and they did nothing in return..in the best case they answered to one or two of my discussions from my first page..but didnt even bother to look at the last page..to help me..i know i am being mean and i never said anything about it but now that u started the subject i took advantage and shared my frustrations too:)
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@heartonfire (4119)
• Denmark
19 Nov 06
ok,i must say i am dissapointed again..i really thought u mean what you said about your friends and all..but i got the chance to see that actually you are annoyed because your friends don't answer to your discusions,but when they do,you don;t do the same for them...you are not my only friend that did so ,i got used to it,i always bring back to life my friend's old discussions and i am used for them not to return the favour,....but you are the only one who actualy complained about the same thing as me..and i thought you were honest...but u r just interested in your own discussions..anyways,i just wanted to say,as i got frustrated again...i wish you a nice day and please don't bother to check my discussions only because i posted this..i want people to interract with me because they please to,and not because they were asked..thank you..and goodluck with your other friends..
@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
19 Nov 06
hey you are being so unfair! during the weekdays i could only check the first few pages of my friends for new discussions, but it's weekend today and i could actually try to retrieve some older discussions from my friends. i've not only responded to yours, try checking from my 'discussion that i've responded' and you can see that i've replied to some discussions of my friends that are dated back 1 month or even weeks ago. i'm a person who do what i mean and i will never force myself to reply to any discussions that i dont want or dont like (whether isit new or it's old). it will be so much better if you start to check first before you start accusing! Take Care! :0)
@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
18 Nov 06
:0) I couldnt stand it anymore....my friends' list actually went up until 130+ and i went into each and everyone to check for new discussions everyday without fail for the past weeks. i was so hurt and dissapointed when i dont see them responding to mine. i dont expect them to reply to every single one of my discussions, but i would appreciate it if they could at least respond to 1 or 2? Glad that this discussion could help you too! Thank you, my friend! ;0)
@moneymind (10510)
• Philippines
19 Nov 06
thats some way of letting out frustration, i am not really soliciting to be added to any ones friends list but i thank all those who requested for it, i have all aproved friends request and if you are interested you can do so, i find it more convinient on my part just to approve request since i have a very slow net connection. greetings. : )
@moneymind (10510)
• Philippines
19 Nov 06
you like my avatar huh.... you will like me more when you see me personally..... he he he he he he..... just kidding you, have a nice time. greetings. : )
@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
19 Nov 06
Thank you for your response! i can see that you are a regular participant in a lot of discussions, and can always remember you cos of the avatar :0)
@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
19 Nov 06
Im sure i will, maybe you should try to put your pic up instead? ^-^ thanks for being my friend :0)
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
18 Nov 06
Why did you respot this? The other post was just there less than 20 minutes ago.
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@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
18 Nov 06
no, seriously i was trying to check for response for this discussion and it's gone from my 'discussion i've started'!! i only have 2 pages of discussion so it's impossible i've miss out. i saw notification of emails for a few responses but i tried to view the page, it's blank!! What happened. I've read your remark for the earlier post (through my email) and i would like to say, thanks for sharing the same thoughts and thanks for being my friend. Have a nice day!
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@margieanneart (26423)
• United States
27 Dec 06
Sometimes, not offen that happens. I have lost a few of mine too. Not a clue why. Must be a glitch.
@remaster74 (4064)
• Greece
19 Nov 06
It's ok! I think most people don't know that when a buddy starts a discussion it appears in the mail they have stated. Also they have to push the "notify off" to be "notify on". And of course yhey don't have to answer to all your discussions.
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@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
19 Nov 06
yeah! you are right. but i've tried to set it to 'notify on' and when i refresh, it will all go back to 'notify off' again. of course i dont expect my friends to reply to all...but at least 1 or 2 would make me happy ;0) Thanks for your response!
@wyykidd (1460)
• Singapore
18 Nov 06
I think you are one of the few wonderful people I've seen who actually response to all the comments posted on your discussions! You are the kind who keeps the discussions going & alive!
Thanks for your responses on the discussions I have posted. I really appreciate that (^_^)
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@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
18 Nov 06
Aww! thanks for the compliment...but i usually dont answer to one liner (refer the one right above you which is pure stupid!) you are one of the best friends i have in myLot! and i'm looking forward for more discussions from you...it's been too long since you started a discussion, my friend! Thank you!
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@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
19 Nov 06
Thank you! but im will be looking forward for your new discussions,my friend! Take care!
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@wyykidd (1460)
• Singapore
19 Nov 06
I understand what you mean... those are obviously trying to chalk up the points just to get a point or 2. Maybe that's how they earn their bucks here....
Ah, I haven't got any 'inspiration' for a new discussion yet :( so i'd rather not post a discussion to ask 'if i'm pretty' or 'what's your age'.... You know what I mean? *LOL*
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@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
19 Nov 06
i understand, but you have been very helpful! Thanks for being my friend! Take care ;0)
@dellion (6698)
• Malaysia
18 Nov 06
I will always check on those discussions been posts by my friends for sure just that sometimes I am too busy on other things so will just responses it a bit later and I hope you will understand it:) In fact I have around 100 friends in my friend's list now as I can see its almost increase everyday and I think I will get at least 30 to 50 new discussions from my friends on mylot...anyway I still will try my best to allocate some times for the responsesand I hope I wouldn't miss yours:)
@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
19 Nov 06
;0) thanks for your response. i'm sure that as soon as i posted out this discussion, those who are in my friends' list will start to think im talking about them. No,dellion, you are one of those helpful ones!! i dont expect my friends to participate in all...i did see some of your views in my discussions, that's good enough LOL thanks for writing in! Take care!
@adawnanaaron (291)
• United States
18 Nov 06
I most definatly see where you are coming from people need to be a lil less selfish and help their friends also
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@kgwat70 (13388)
• United States
18 Nov 06
I definitely agree with your opinion on this and am trying to keep up with the people on my friends list as well. Sometimes I am not sure what to say to some of the topics. It is difficult keeping up with everyones topics though but am trying.
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@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
18 Nov 06
Thanks for your response. i always try to respond to my friend's discussion, as much as i can...although there are some that i definitely have no clue...but im so sad that there are some friends who are not doing that...Have a nice day! ;0)
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@wathanjim (2214)
• United States
18 Nov 06
I try to respond when i can sometimes its just hard to keep up.
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@firelight (1858)
• Australia
19 Nov 06
That's fair enough. I always check through my friends posts to see if they've posted any new topics I can reply to. Particularly if I've seen them post in mine as well.
@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
19 Nov 06
Thanks for your response, i'm sure you are a very nice friend to be! Take care! ;0)
@clover779 (698)
• Portugal
19 Nov 06
I hope you are not talking about me. I responded and contributed to almost all your discussions. But I do have the same problem, almost nobody responds to my discussions. Should I be mad like you?
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@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
19 Nov 06
LOL i'm not talking about you, cos you are not in my friends' list and i've never responded to any of your discussions (i think!) i dont know whether you should be mad at your friends or not...you should be a better judge of that...so shall we be friends then? ;0)
@Metallion (2227)
• United States
18 Nov 06
I totally agree with what you are saying, I see a lot of people that act selfishly on this site, just trying to do whatever they can to get money for themselves, they have to realize the money is a bonus, not the reason for the message board. I will add you as a friend and respond to your threads when I'm on.
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@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
19 Nov 06
i do not want to condemn or criticise anyone by starting this discussion, just want to vent out my frustration. Thanks for being my friend!!
@wildguy2 (1349)
• Canada
18 Nov 06
I have the same beliefs as you, I think I have posted some decent posts here and every now and then I get a one line answer or a completely off topic response. I don't take the time to make a post in hopes that I will get a thousands responses, I would rather have 2 helpfull intelligent responses. Just about every response I make is decent, I have made a few that were not so wonderfull, but I do try to help and enlighten a post as much as possible, there is so much information in the cultures out there and different views on every topic and I like it when I see all those views come to life.
Thanks for being my friend at mylot looking forward too many more posts.
@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
18 Nov 06
Thank you for your advise and you've got great points there. Hope we could help out each other in responding more to each other discussions yeah? Take Care, my friend! ;0)
@sweetcakes (3504)
• United States
23 Nov 06
i have you on my friends list and i have responded to some of your discussion.i mean that's the reason for the friends list right? i have friends on my list who don't respond to my topics either, i get a little sad sometimes, because you feel used and that's not right.
@sweetcakes (3504)
• United States
23 Nov 06
i have some recent one's but no one responded to them
i guess because when i first started i made some silly
topics. but now im use to mylot and i try to start an intelligent discussion and nobody respond to them.
@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
23 Nov 06
i've checked out your recent discussion that have no response...err...i have to be honest, i dont know how to respond at all...those that i know, i will try to, ok? sorry and thanks for being my friend!
@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
23 Nov 06
Thanks for your response...and yes, you have been very helpful..it's been quite some times since you have new discussions, dear! ;0) yeah..but i've got fed up of complaining...i just try to respond more to those who responded to me and ignored the rest.. Have a good day! ;0)
@baronarthur (4187)
• Indonesia
3 Dec 06
I really want to respond in your discussions. But, I don't think I could answer all and you've started only a little bit discussions...You should started more discussions, because you always post quality discussions.
@baronarthur (4187)
• Indonesia
4 Dec 06
I think that you must have many things to talk..
Because you have responded with quality responses. I mean with many words:)
@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
4 Dec 06
LOL cos i dont have much things to talk about and i dont want to start a discussions just for the sake of starting one. but i've seen you in some of my discussions and i would like to say thank you, my friend!
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@magikrose (5429)
• United States
30 Nov 06
I totally agree with you. I have many people in my friends list but I only see a few who actually make it a point to respond t omy discussions. I always make it apoint to go to the "View my friends discussions" section to see if there are any posts that I have an opnion about. That is the whole point of the add a friend section to be able to help eachother out with responses. I see you here everyday responding and commenting. You have every right to be angry at a few people as do quite a few of us.
@magikrose (5429)
• United States
1 Dec 06
I missed the first discussion you had like this one. I am shure your real friends will know and usderstand that this is not meant for them, and that it is for thos who are not working with you like you are trying with them to make mylot a community and not just all for them selves.
@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
1 Dec 06
Thanks for your response. I'm getting embarassed that this discussion resurfaced :D actually...cos i dont want some of my helpful friends thinking that this are directed to them.
@LackThereOf (571)
• United States
21 Nov 06
I'm new to MyLot and I try to post comments often. Is there any way that you can specifically look for posts that your friends have started so you can support them? I have added you as a friend, can you email me and let me know? Appreciate it! :O)
@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
21 Nov 06
Thanks for adding me! nice to know you! what i usually do will be to go in to my friends' profile to check for new discussions or try to 'dig' some old discussions that i'm interested to respond to. so, i'm looking forward for more discussions from you, fellow friend! Take Care! ;0)
@LackThereOf (571)
• United States
24 Nov 06
Yeah, I just noticed that new button too! Makes things so much easier!! Thanks! :O)
@mysiraylon (1102)
• United States
9 Jan 07
If I may say so you've got to give chance to newcomers like myself be part of your circle. Then show them some nice tips and suggestions in your mylot experiences. Who knows it might work that way, huh?
@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
9 Jan 07
of course! i can see that you are someone who go for quality...seeing that you respond wonderfully well! i'm glad to be your friend...thanks for being my friend! :D
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@mysiraylon (1102)
• United States
9 Jan 07
I thank you, and 'am hoping be one of your active favorites, ha ha ha. Anyway let me just read more of your topics okay then whenever I find something within my interests then expect reply from me.
@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
9 Jan 07
my reasoning is not valid? elaborate...and you can actually use some words that you are sure of so that i can understand you better. thank you