I wish I could go home for good.

Hi Lissele, I have a GF and when we got settled, we'll pursue our plan to migrate too. We're 8 siblings. Im the 6th one and from me till our youngest we used to go home to our parents where they permanently residing in Bengalore, India. My Dad has a dual citizenship but my Mom. I also have two but not called dual citizenship one is where I was born and the other is just like a consideration. I miss everything belongs to my 2 hometowns. I have my anual vacation every december but the happiness I am yearning to see and feel wasn't complete as we weren't complete. There was a time we had a family reunion but that was 11 years ago when I'm still in 10th grade.

Good luck to your future plans. Probably you really are destined to be away from your homeland while I'm destined to be contented forever in my homeland :)

That's what I think too. Thanks Liselle.

Gre y go Hola. You are lucky as you are taking your formal college education there. Just concentrate your studies and study first before anything else. After 5 or more years of sacrifices, you'll be finishing i know. Bring home your diploma and surely your parents will be happy and proud of you. I have never had my formal college education but i know how hard it is as i have seen how my elder siblings succeed with their studies. 3 among them are medicine related course. and an electrical and mechanical engineers. they all finished their studies. since i'm the black ship among them, i have my own story too. but at least i am not so far behind from them materially. i think i'm still lucky.

hi:D hmm... i'm feeling better about school now. i was just s stressed when i wrote that reply; i don't actually hate school nor studying^_^ i'm ok now~ my parents worked really hard so i could go to school, and i swear i'm trying to do my part so that i could give them a good life when they're older.^_^ you don't seem like a black sheep to me, so don't say that;) normal people like me need to follow the standards of society and go to school to find ourselves a living afterwards. while people like you who don't go through that trend, i believe, are you geniuses.;) you are champions of your lives! yey!

that's good torero torero we'll just keep our motivation levels high.

that's true. i miss their company, the things that we do together; a sense of belonging. i miss the pace of life where we siblings adopted from our first hometown. they really know how to relax, there is a good balance between works and leisures.

Hi Shia, you are still luckier than me as when you went home all your loved ones are there at one place waiting for you. but for me, they scattered around the globe.. lol... really i miss them all..

Hiya kumar, Wow I am finding it difficult to keep up with this. I never usually take this long to answer but these past few weeks have been hectic too. Yes I can forgive them but it´s hard to forget what they did but I am getting there. Do you tell them that you are Homesick or is that you don´t want them to worry too much about you? I would tell them. Maybe you can get a few weeks off for Christmas and fly over to Granada and India. There are some very cheap flights now and you should be able to manage it I think anyway. No you are not wrong what you say at the end either. But going back to you yourself I would think that now you have a better position you could ask just that one time and take the time out to go and see them. Sometimes we forget to remember all the time. I would think that they probably miss you very much as well by the sound of it. So go on get your Case ready for December and have a great time in those two places what a lucky guy. They will be so pleased to see you again.

Hola Sra., I was not prepared for the culture shock I experienced and the challenges when I first come here especially for the culture that is much different from where I came. I came and grown up from a closely knit family and I often have a constant feeling of being out of place and alone which tend to intensify my homesickness and cravings for the comfort of home and familiar faces. We are able to connect through the internet even my distant relation especially there in granada where they spent their leisure time on the net at times. Hearing ther voices and seeing their faces on the net is a great comfort but to come and contact with so as to feel is the one I am missing so much. Although I was not totally grown up in this culture but I was born there so it really qualifies it. Thanks Senhora and I can relate and understand from what you had written here regarding your family. For whatever it is, if we human have the power to forgive, totally forgive like our Dear Lord does, there would be no sentiments and hates at all. We just usually Ignore what someone did and move on.. please correct me here if I am wrong. Take care now and have a nice weekend.

Hello Marichris, yes i have my annual vacation every december but the only ones who i come home to are my loving parents and my youngest siblings and sometimes Paulina if she went home from baza. she's studying in granada and she love the place. all my elder siblings migrated to different countries already...

Ms. Hatley! can you imagine almost 11 years that I havn't see my siblings personally. Although we often chat, everyday chatting, cam to cam, it is not complete as I want to hug them... my eldest brother Miguel Prakash offered me to join him in Vancouver, BC Canada but I don't know yet. in time, a good decision between me and my GF will be made.. I just don't know who among Paulina and Sadie would want to stay either my Mom's or Dad's Homeland as so far none of us did.