Do you have any brother or sisters? Are you get on well with each other ?

@xtmlove (402)
China
September 30, 2010 10:26am CST
I had a brother who was only one and half years older than me. But we not get on very well. I like to speak, while he likes to remain silent. So we had little of time to communicate with each other. In fact, I love him very much. But I don't know how to express this emotion. Please give some advices to me. Thank you very much!
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7 responses
• United States
30 Sep 10
I have 3 older sisters and 3 older brothers. I grew up with my sisters and when i was little we didn't get along so well, because of... well we know how lil brothers can be. Now that i'm grown we are very close, in fact we see each other nearly every weekend at my mothers for dinner. Now my brothers i've met 2 of them maybe twice since they have a different mother and grew up with her so don't know them at all really. Wouldn't know what to say if i had to sit in a room w/ them
@xtmlove (402)
• China
1 Oct 10
Thanks for you response. Now you are get on well with each other, this is very good deed. No matter what will happen in the futrue, please keep this good relation all the time.
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
i have a sister whose also one and a half years older than me and we get along with each other. i have my own stories about what is happening to me and she also has. she's more vocal than me and sometimes i'm just nodding with what she says. i'm also a silent type of person but when someone is talking or telling a story to me, i listen and when i have something to comment, i say it. maybe your brother have nothing to say with what you have said. try to create a discussion that can be related by both of you. you should know his likes or dislikes so that he can have something to say to you.just stay to be natural, be talkative if that's the real and someday, he will learn to be talkative also. :D the two of you will speak if its time to speak and be silent if silence is needed, respect each other and you'll get along well. good luck!! :D
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@xtmlove (402)
• China
1 Oct 10
Yes, I agree with what you said. Maybe I need to make some change about the habit that I often talk too much. I need to talk somethings that he also has interest. Sometimes, I also need to keep silence just as you said. Thank you very much!
@banban (601)
• China
2 Oct 10
Yes, I have a sister who is younger than me. We two are getting on very well, I'm glad to say. We like each other, and she likes to being together with me. She says it's fun to be with me. Not bad, right? Sometimes, she talks to me about what's bothering her right now. And then I provide here with my personal opinion and try to help her out. I wish we two can be such a good relationship forever.
@greenline (14838)
• Canada
5 Oct 10
Yes, I have a sister, younger sister. We get along very well. We love each other very much and care for each other. But, because of my work, we are far from each other. Often, I feel very guilty of neglecting her, and not being considerate as much as I should. But, she never gets mad at me. A very understanding loving sister.
@chayapathys (2111)
• India
24 Oct 10
I have two brothers and five sisters and i am the eldest.So I brought them all to a very good level by getting my sisters married and educating my brothers.In my experience brothers do not like each other.It is the common complaint all over the world.As I see they develop a feeling that their parents cared and loved more the other brother and neglected him. It may be true or it may not be true.Parents as such like all their children.In you case you are talkative and your brother is not..That doesn't mean that he does not love you or like you.Blood is thicker than water ..so goes the proverb.You continue to love him and due course he will realize and return your love.All the best..
• Philippines
2 Oct 10
....I have a brother but were not too close from each other because we don't have the same likes/dislikes..I don't even speak sometimes with him....
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
2 Oct 10
First of all buddy correct your mistake. Brother is not older than you, Brother is Elder than You. I dont know whats your repective ages, But. it looks from your discusion that you are at a young age. It looks That Your brother is of reserve type nature, But that doesnt mean that he didnt love you. You do one thing always obey him in when ever he says you something to do, dont talk to him too much or argue with him too much.Its good that you love him and keep that on. as brothers are very special and one does get them easily. I have a younger brother and he is 6 years younger to me.I love him very much and care for him very much as my own son.We are going through a bad time phase and he is the only one who is standing by me and listens to me.Though he listened to me everytime since my childhood. So give your brother some time and obey him.he will automatically start responding to you,