How do you handle family members who don't get along during the holidays?

I invite everyone, if there are problems between someone then i tell them simply Everyone is invited if you don't want to come you don't have to but if you do then you MUST be on your best behavior, make an effort. If anyone starts causing trouble then deal with it appropriately. Personally I pull said person aside and remind them of my conditions if that doesn't work then i just ask them to leave if they can't control themselves.

I think you should invite... try get the best holliday ever, even they not getting along with each other, maybe until next year they would like get invited again

hi sender easy just remind all that we are family and we will not be having silly fights at holiday time. Whoever starts up something, take 'that person aside. You will behave yourself at my home or you will leave the table and the room, is that understood? and do not for goodness sake seat those who squablle with each other side by side.Be firm and the first sign of trouble get the troublemakers to take it outdoors or preferably take it to thier homes. just do not tolerate any type of fighting.

i think somebody from the family should still invite them that is if only a few are not getting along with each other. it is a family affair so everybody should be there..

Hello Sender! i love christmas and holydays becaus ethey have the perfect timescedguale for my family time: enough to spend some quality time together and have gret memorier for later, but not enought time to get bored and start going on our nerves :)