hi, I have every one around, yet I am all alone

Yes sometimes i also feel alone at times. But you are married and u have kids and a wife so how can you be really lonely? I think that you need to spend more time with your family at home by maybe joining them in some fun group activities or by going out altogether. I think that's all your lacking in. You are not born all alone. There are probably thousands who are born with you at the same time and who knows one of them has been your friend or some one close. Moreover when you die a part of you is still left in someones's heart which no one can erase. Cheers!

Tell me about it, sweetie. That is a freaky feeling sometimes. TATA.

I am off work due to illness for 14 years now; I have two teenage daughters (one who drives) who have very active social lives, and a husband who golfs (today is the third time this week). Yeah, I'm pretty lonely. Why is he able to golf 3 times this week? Because he is off on STD due to a recurring back problem. That's right. He should NOT be playing golf. So not only am I lonely I'm mad. My kids are great though. We get along well and have some great laughs together when they are home. But I have been pretty lonely for several years now and it gets more and more painful.

You are not alone! You have them and you have me as a good friend. If you can't talk to them , then shoot me a private message and talk to me! Yes I felt that way since I was a little girl. I never felt visible, even with family. I had a close friend Just Listen and he showed me I am visible and I felt great and I was in that state when I met the love of my life. I am not All alone now! so please if I can help , let me. You are not all alone.

Yes, no matter how close we are to someone, there are times we always feel alone. But that's part of life I guess. We can be alone when they're not around, busy with their lives as well. And we can also be alone when you have this inner lonesome feeling. But when you're alone, just reach out and someone would come. :)

I think that you are very pesimistic, depressed and selfish! You have a happy familly, great sons, also loving relatives and friends ( i just thought it will make any sence if somebody else tell you). there are people who really are alone out-there, with nobody to say one kind word to them and you do not hear them complain-mostly because you are not there. Yet, i understand you, what one have is never enought, and will allways want some more; this is our said humman conditin:never to be satisfied

Ya it is true we can be in a crowded room yet feel alone. This sometimes happen to me when I feel detached for no reasons. I am imprisoned in my own world. So I end up in the virtual world to create my own fantasy world. Mylot has been my haunt place when I feel lonely.

well i guess it's just that there are times when we can't help it but be depressed and feel like a loner.... it happens to me from time to time, i think i'll just call it my pms episodes. lol. anyway i'm still thankful of the people around me the people who love me the people i love... they may not be there all the time, and i may not be there for them neither at all times, but still, i'm grateful , very grateful, to have them in my life and i would never want to take them for granted....they make this life and this world a lot less lonelier than it already is for me...

Well, I would have to say that you are not happy with your life. Do you do anything for yourself? A lot of people get married, have a family and everything is all about them. You have to do something for yourself that you love or enjoy or you will be unhappy.

That is because we are very selfish. We think about ourselves. We be with people till our purpose is served and later on we don't bother about anyone. When we are lonely we do not have anybody to talk to and we cannot tell everything to our parents or our family.

Hi anna, yeah sometimes i too feel like that, why i don't know, though i have everything, yet i feel something is missing and i am alone sometimes. I try to find out the solution for this now. Have a wonderful and joyful day anna. God bless you and your family.

I have tried profusely to mask my pain my dear. As I never had a true family of my own. Although I have wonderful respectful children and now Thank God a wonderful boyfriend. I have and still over drown my life with work. It is a way of masking my true feelings. Although I laugh with glee most times my inner feelings of being alone remind me of how empty I feel inside. Your are right when you way we can have so many around us and yet feel lonely sometimes, as no amount of words and comforting can truly evade the feelings.

I recently wrote an article on loneliness which you can read on my website. Since I lost my wife some years ago and have had to deal with loneliness, I have come to realize that many weapons are needed to combat loneliness. While it still visits me at times I sent it away pretty fast.

Loneliness is part of our life. It will remind us to be strong and to keep on going. Then if you still haven't found happiness, ask yourself what makes you happy. Try to find new things, you have your family, you have everything around you,. You must be happy, unless if you still searching for another happiness. Open your eyes. You are blessed to have them all loving you. There are so many people around here who are broken family and in a long distance relationship but still they manage to stay happy. Enjoy life!

Being lonely sometimes is good. At least I liked those moments for myself alone. That was in happy days. Now I am alone all the time with so many people around me (not my family though...) Having a good practice at it Maybe I will be at my best when I leave but for now I term it as my bad inter-personal skills. Just love this notion!

I think it is depend on the contentment of a person. If you think you are alone despite you have a good wife that loving you much. You maybe a selfish person. Because as you get married after the wedding celebration you are declare one body even literally you and your wife are two person... I agree some your points here. But I did not agree on the wife side..have a nice day!

I think sometimes we can feel lonely when you don't have a soulmate, or someone to share your life with - like a husband or a wife. I feel like this sometimes, most defintiely because I'm single! So I know how it feels. You just have to remember what you just said - that you have people who love you and care about you all around you, and hope that it's enough!

It happens, even with a happy family. Sometimes we need something that we don't even know we need it. Until this feeling of needing something grows to loneliness. I don't think I make sense, here.

Hi vijayanths, Yes, I agree. However, when I feel as such, I pray to God, and then I do not feel alone. Then their are times, when I must be alone just reflect, or be silent. At any rate, I prefer a "Happy Medium." :)

Yes. You have come and you have to alone.No one accompanied you in both onward and return journey.Yet both journeys are certain.There is no one way journey.When you are traveling alone in a train many people join you on the way but when your station comes you have get down alone.When you started your journey no body was with you and when you get down at your station no one gets down along with.Similarly the journey of life is like that.You have not brought with you some one whom you love most but that was not not in your hands so also you cannot take any one with you however much you love.Alenxander the great before dying ordered for a coffin with two holes one on each side.When asked he replied that "let the world know I am not taking any with me though I have conquered the whole world.Keep my both hands streched on both sides"That is philosopjy. You are young. Don't get such thoughts from now on. Enjoy you family life..