Cheating

I think it's normal to think of someone else other than your partner, but loving someone else is another issue. It may be considered an act of cheating to some people. Try to avoid the thought and think how wonderful your now partner/husband/wife.

In-fact I too think there are plenty of people who even after getting married will think about another man or woman. I would say it is the infatuation and not love. There are ways to get over it. The first thing of-course is make the relationship adventurous. If you go with the Religious scripture, then yes getting married and thinking abut another man is cheating and sin. But if you are not inclined toward it and want to make your relationship with your husband more meaningful, then I guess it is the normal phenomenon and you will get over it.

Cheating is considered to be doing anything that you would not do in the company of your spouse or tell your spouse about. If you hide this from the spouse then it could be considered emotional cheating rather than a physical one.

When you are with your hubby you are thinking of someone else?

Hello Toni and welcome in myLot! I think cheating means lies : told and even "untold" lies.If you think about other man while you're with your husband,this is a lie for your soul and your husband's soul.Because sometimes you told him "I love you".Why don't tell him now "I don't love you"? I don't know,maybe I'm not right,but I can't stay near my husband and love other men. Happy lotting!

I think that is not a cheating your husband... but sound like not enough good for your life and your heart later..

I think there are many definitions for cheating. I think when a person give pain to a person in love and when any person left their someone special forever and goes to other I think then it is called cheating in love. So it is my definitions for cheating in love.