what is happiness?

Philippines
October 1, 2010 2:18am CST
Im tired and sick of my life. I'm 24 years old, graduated with a degree. I'm already tired of applying with so many companies but then none of one has hired me. Now, I don't appreciate the meaning of hAppiness. I almost forgot to smile and appreciate the people around me. I easily get hurt, cried many times and sometimes I feel so hopeless and I even think my life is nonsense and meaningless....oh please help me....I'm so weak with this game called challenges...
6 responses
• India
7 Oct 10
hi, dont lose heart, just because you could not find a job yet doesnt mean, that you should feel let down. getting over a situation is not easy, i have had to experience the same situation years ago. later when i had to quit my job, i just remembered the trouble i had gone through in finding this one. dont trouble yourself with these thoughts, and you are not weak at all. everybody is able to handle every situation in life. dont think that its not possible, i know that all this sounds good, and it might seem very difficult for you to do any of it. first of things, do not lose hope ok. dont judge the life, because of one aspect of it. well, i'l pray that u get settled soon, and keep up the spirits because after the darkest hour comes the brightest dawn. well, forgive me if havent sited the phrase properly ;) good luck :)
• Philippines
8 Oct 10
I really admire your message... Thank u soo much!
• India
16 Oct 10
you are always welcome..
• United States
5 Oct 10
i'm 19 and i have had to go to more doctors for pain that 70 and 80 year olds. for me happiness is simple no pain and no bleeding without a cut, and i am not happy much caise the pain doesn't stop but every day i have hope and i push threw it lol. right now i have a cold and my whole body hurts and my nose started bleeding a little while ago but i like the song that's play so woot for awesome songs but my point is little things like a song being on that you like should make you feel better it does for me
• Philippines
6 Oct 10
Nice one. I can see that u are a positive and optimistic minded person. Keep it up! thanks!
• United States
6 Oct 10
lol thanks and feel better yourself
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
1 Oct 10
we all have our own depressions and stress. life has a lot of this to distract us. me and my wife had something like that before she had a few miscarriages before we hit the jackpot. during those days we still need to face trials. it will surely pass. just like you are feeling that will pass. talk to friends or family. pray. have something as an outlet. good thing you joined mylot. there are a lot of good people around here and you will gain a lot of wonderful friends. there are more trials to come, that is life but we need to learn how to deal with it. hope you soon find a job. good luck.
• Philippines
1 Oct 10
Thank you soo much, I really appreciate it. Yah I guess life is like this I have to face my the world with courage. And I believe you have the point. Thanks again.
@incus99 (1083)
• Philippines
1 Oct 10
Just because you don't find a job you're meaningless and less happy.. go back to the basics on why are looking for a job.. for a new grad, its career, whats a career for? to support a family... the basic thing is your family.. once you have a happy family, you already have every reason to be happy in this world .
• Philippines
1 Oct 10
Maybe I guess you are right. Tnx!
• Philippines
8 Oct 10
"Are you bored with your life? Then throw you self into some work you believe in all your heart, live for it, die for it, and you will find the happiness that you had thought that never be yours." -Dale Carnegie
8 Oct 10
Me I'm kind of bored sometimes that's why I'm thinking of going to school for hair. Like that. Which I think i'm suited for the field. It's hard to be just stuck up in a one place at a time that you're no longer productive. And from this I can find some extra income in the future. Hope to achieve this plan.
@louie847 (350)
• Philippines
2 Oct 10
Dear gianna, i know what you are feeling right now. Life is not easy and we will be encountering problem and challenges. But always keep in mind to keep your faith strong and always pray to God for strength and guidance. Do not lose hope and you always have your family and friends to support and help you.
• Philippines
5 Oct 10
Thank you soo much my dear louie. Yes indeed life is totaly not easy. And now I'm learning how to be strong and learning how to appreciate that life is beautiful. I'm thankful coz I've got my friends and my family who is always at my side and willing to lean on their shoulders to me. Thanks in a million =).