falling inlove with my best friend
By pretty_lexie
@pretty_lexie (74)
Philippines
October 1, 2010 2:59am CST
Have you ever experienced falling for your best friend? How was it any regrets? Did you ever said that i should have not fall for him/her? To be able to save the friendship or do you think that you two are meant to be forever? as partner, best friend & lovers?
8 responses
@wiwa05 (230)
• Philippines
1 Oct 10
haha
it's more than that! I was embarrassed! I kept it a secret for too long. Until 1 night, me, him and our other friends went out to have some fun. When I got too drunk, my friends asked me that, 'if given a chance, is it ok for me to fall in love with him(my bestfriend)?'... I thought he was still in the comfort room peeing. I never thought he was already at my back when I answered that, "why not? of course yes! In fact, I'm in love at him already for a long time!".
When I turned around I was so SO SHOCKED seeing him! Gosh! How I wish I hadn't said that, and how I wish I had powers at that moment to be invisible. hehe :)
well anyway, we're stil ok now- as bestfriends. But I'm very5 happy now with my boyfriend for 7 years! ^_^
@pretty_lexie (74)
• Philippines
5 Oct 10
why were you shy to say your true feelings for him there's nothing wrong with that telling him what you feel doesn't mean he has to feel the same for you, well its definitely great if he will feel the same. you know him better that is theres a possibility that you will admire him.
@AvI0907 (230)
• Malaysia
1 Oct 10
yes, i do but i never tell to my best friend because i worry my best friend will steps out from the friend relationship between me. Instead of getting worst in our relationship, it's better for me just falling in love in silently and always be there for my best friend.
@pretty_lexie (74)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
i understand that you wanted to save your relationship as best friend & you dont want to take the risk. However, loving your best friend doesn't mean you'll oblige
him to love you in return though it is much better if he does. telling him what you really felt for him can be of positive or negative result for the friendship you have. i admire you for having the patience of loving your best friend silently to save the friendship.
@aevans (255)
• Malaysia
4 Oct 10
i used to fall in love with my best friend. it is hard for me to tell her that i love her, because i scared of any changes that might affect our friendship. i feel that it is enough for us to have current friendship and i happy with that. a good friendship doesn't mean we can be a good lover. i think some people they are just good to be friend.
@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
• United Arab Emirates
1 Oct 10
yes i have experienced. But i have never revealed this as i would be losing my friend and friendship comes before love for me.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
1 Oct 10
I cannot tell you anything in this matter since I had no chance in my life to fall in love with my best friend
@IoanaBI (494)
• Romania
1 Oct 10
Hello Pretty lexie! I have a boy friend ! I can rely on him every time, and think that if it is in his power he will help me. He is my partner and my lover..However, even if he will try to do everithing for our relation, i do like him as a friend. He always make me feel ashamed of him when we are between other people or my friends- maakes very bad jokes, tries to be funny but is not going in the right direction, speack too much and what must be remain unsaid, he thinks he is special :D, and very smart.. I think i like him only in private..i have accepted his foult and i know that nobody is perfect
@pretty_lexie (74)
• Philippines
5 Oct 10
oh doesnt it hurt when your bf seems like treating you like just ordinary girl in front of everybody? doesnt he supposed to extend the care he gave you even if someone is around? thanks for commenting on my post.
@johnpillai (2082)
• Germany
1 Oct 10
Why not. thatcould be a healthier love that love after friendship. I hope during your friendship period both get good understanding. Everybody knows each others plus and minus. Don't worry. don#t feel guilty. continue your love and friendship. I had a best friend in my life. from other religion and race. Age is also different. that was always friendship. he help us a lot in my wedding day. Yes i had a beautiful friendship. That is another style of life. You can follow your own style. Give importance to your own feelings.
@angelmoonlyt (103)
• Pasig, Philippines
1 Oct 10
Well, we both fell in love. We started as friends. Just real good friends. However, he had a girlfriend for a long time and I tried to walk away and leave him because I really falling for him at that time. His girlfriend is in abroad while I'm always with him. He told me that he loves me. It was great time spending time with him and I traveled 113 miles just to see him because I live in the city and he lives at the beach. However, with that complicated situation I cannot stay any longer. Until a guy came to me and he saw the sadness in my eyes. He knew that I'm not happy in that kind of situation. That guy became my boyfriend until now and when the beach boy told me that he will be moving to the city, I told him that I already have a boyfriend. So sad that it was too late that he knew that I have a boyfriend and too late for me to know that he finally broke up with his girlfriend for me.
Regrets? Yes. I just wished that it didn't happen and we remained as ordinary friends. I asked him not to leave me because I value our friendship so much and so he did as my friend.
Oh so sad.