Falling in Love With Your Bestfriend

Philippines
October 1, 2010 7:45am CST
If you fell in love with you bestfriend, how will you deal with the situation? Will you let him/her know how you feel or will you just keep it to yourself because of the risk of losing the friendship? I've been in this situation and I just took the risk of telling him how I feel and turns out he feels the same. Guess I'm a lucky girl.
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4 responses
• Philippines
2 Oct 10
I'd rather tell him what i fell,I'll take that risk of losing our friendship than keeping it and keep hurting my self seeing him with other girl.what if he fells the same way to,and his afraid also of telling you because his afraid of losing you... There are lots of what if's...so we must do what we need to do and face what consequences it has....
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• Philippines
2 Oct 10
You're right! The what ifs will just keep nagging on my mind. But some people are just content without changing the situation just content of being just a friend to avoid the risks of losing that person.
• Philippines
2 Oct 10
Best friend? falling in love with your best friend is common to friends, but for me I will not let him know that I fell for him for the reason that our friendship will be affected, its better to be friends more than anything because when you will be more than friends then if you broke up your long last friendship will be thrown into nothing
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• Philippines
2 Oct 10
That is usually the dilemma of telling your true feelings for your best friend. It's hard to lose a friendship just because you became honest with how you feel.
• Canada
1 Oct 10
I cared so deeply for my best male friend all through high school. I was very shy and was afraid to let him know. So we stayed best friends all those years... we even went to the same college and shared a locker for our first semester :) We kept in touch over the years and, when he came to visit me for my birthday one year, we had a long talk and I finally admitted, almost jokingly, how much I had felt for him all those years ago. He got very serious and just asked "Why didn't you ever TELL me?" So it seems he was interested too and I guess we missed the chance to find out how we would have been as a couple. But, that's ok... at least I do know we'll always be friends, even when we don't see each other for long periods of time. :)
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• Philippines
2 Oct 10
No one really know better back then. It's good though that both you still remained after all these years.
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@fey008 (295)
• Indonesia
1 Oct 10
OF course... Nothing something with this situation, i think.. No body knows to whom they will falling in love..