Do you still love your husband or your wife?

i used to love my husand so much. He isn't my first love, not even my first kiss but he is the first man who truly swept me off my feet when he kissed me.LOL But due to a lot of odds against us and he let his weaknesses over ruled him, we are both suffering from a boring and sad relationship. though we still laugh at times, we talk, but deep inside there's that emptiness... I think, I can never completely be fall out of love with him, he is the father of my kids and I owe him for that. I can say, too, that I spent the best days of my life with him.... Good for you, thebest1. I hope you will have more happy years together.:)

My husband and I celebrated our first year anniversary last Sunday. They say that the first year of marriage can be the rockiest. I don't know if ours was as rocky as others in the past might have been. Of course we've also not moved out of his parents house, and don't have nearly as much responsibility as some newlyweds do. I still love my husband and I will always love my husband. We took premarital counseling as a prerequisite to be married in the church we were married in. We have workbooks that we can go back and refer to when ever we feel we need to. We also have God to pray to, to get us through times where we might not be on the same page, or where our faith if wavering.

We've only been together 7 years, but yes I do still love him just the same. Even if I hate him half the time, lol.

For me yes because married is Jehovah God's arrangement so in hard time or not your are married and love each other.

I'm so glad you shared this. I'm in the live together fase and can't say about how it's gonna last, I believe it's a strong feeling indeed but what do I know? You can be sure cause almost two decades can give you some answers. Congratulations and I wish you guys to find many more decades. Your story give hope for those who are begining even in living together or just got married :D

Very happy to hear about your married life.Therefore you have gone through both good and bad period with full mutual understanding and respect.Yours is an ideal married life.Here in India we don't live together before marriage.Ours is not a love marriage and our marriage was arranged by our parents.We did not even talk with each other before marriage.In those days talking was also a taboo.Our marriage took place on 18th June 1965 in my wife's residence .From then on we are living together.We have gone through both good and bad days.We have 4 children..3 daughters and a son.All are well settled.We both live in our own house in a City...OK ..God bless you..

I have been married to my husband for 14 years and we were together 2 years before that.We have had our ups and downs aswell as our share of problems,but we are still together.I will say that we are just as happy as we were when we first met,also we still enjoy all the time that we spend together.I think that there are alot of people that have never felt that strong feeling of love and i do really feel sorry for them,because thetre is no better feeling than love itself.

Well ofcourse I still love my husband though I am not yet too much experienced as you but still I think as the days and years passed by the bonding is getting stronger and stronger because we could understand each other in much more better way and sometimes with talking we understand we want to say.

I don't have a husband yet, but I am praying to God that when I am bound to have one I am praying that God will do all the covering we need so we will last forever... and I think those years... happy and hard life will all be the same its still sweets with pure faithful commitment with each other. God bless you and your husband more love... just always keep God in the center of your life and God will take care of the rest... and if God is with you... who can stand against your love? God bless!

I'm only about to get married soon and I really love my future husband. But his parent have been married for 25 years now, another 5 years before marriage, so that makes it 30 years. But they are still very romantic, and just like boyfriend and girlfriend when they are watching TV. His mother still cries like a baby whenever she flies away to another country because of job. And his father is still laughing at her untidiness at home(homework). He always lets her win in any arguments, and that makes her apologize faster and loves him more. I wish my marriage with their son will be stay very long with happiness too. I really admire his parent, and they are my idol when it comes about marriage.

That's great and this should be the case for any loving couple. Time will really prove the love for each other. If a relationship cannot sustain through time, then there is something wrong with the relationship. In every relationship we need to know that every human beings has its pros and cons... we must not only think of the pros our partner has but also try to understand and accept their cons as well. Only by doing that, relationship can sustain for a long long period :D Have a happy day and may you enjoy each and everyday together with your husband :D

My husband and I are married for 18 years already. He'll be flying home this afternoon to be with us after having stayed at his hometown for 2 weeks. I can't contain my joy to see him again. Life is less stressful when he's around and I still am head over heels with him. This is one travel that made us apart for a long while but am just happy to have him back. He attended the burial of his mother. I was with him earlier but have to fly back home a week before his scheduled flight because of my daughter's school activity. Now that he's coming home, I'll be going to cook his favorite dish. The kids are excited to see him as well. Hopefully, we'll not get fed us loving each other. We do things together most of the time that's why when he has a travel, life becomes different without him. I guess I became too dependent of him at times that I call myself a helpless mammalia when hub is not around (wink)

wow thats great!! well, I'm not married yet but i had a boyfriend and i do love him so much.. were still undergo called "measures of love" but we still strong to face it even so hard both of us.. and i know he also love me..same what i feel for him...