Will he ever ask me?
By sh5olson
@sh5olson (7)
United States
October 1, 2010 2:55pm CST
OK, my boyfriend and i have been together for over 1 year now, he is 6 years younger then me and he absolutely adores me,but we sayed from the beginning that we would never get married again, both of us come from a bad first marriage, he was married for 15 years and i was married for 23 years...Deep down inside i want him to ask me, will there ever be a chance?
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5 responses
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
1 Oct 10
There could be. I would say it'd take a while longer, but if you two really love each other he may change his mind like you seem to be doing now. Just take things slow and maybe broach the subject in another six months or so, and see how things go from there.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
2 Oct 10
I am glad you do and I hope it works out for both of you.
@piya84 (2581)
• India
10 Oct 10
Cant say.Getting out of trauma of bad marriage isn’t easy thing and he may fear you tuning him down as you too have burned hands with previous marriage.
If I was you I would give him some hints to let him know I am ready for another marriage.
Some thing like I wish I would have married you first instead of that other man our marriage could have sustain forever or something like that.If he is also out of shock of bad marriage he might propose you.Best luck!
Hey and one more thing you look younger as compare to your age.
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
3 Oct 10
Maybe when you are able to cope up with your fear of getting married again. do not rush. Maybe, enjoy the love and your relationship for now. Besides, marriage can only be in the mind. If it is not your priority now because of your past marriages, then enjoy each other. what matters is you both love each other.
@luxlyangels (1286)
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3 Oct 10
Well give him time i think he might just do it.
But it may be hard to trust another woman in ife again i tell you.
If it was me i am not sure i would do it.
Im not being negative ,im not him,you know him better ofcourse so just give him time and he will do it.
@JaneApple (23)
• China
2 Oct 10
If he loves you,I am sure he will.You both come from a bad first marriage,so he needs sometime to make sure of his own heart.Or maybe he has the same mind with you but dare not to say it out.So you could have a talk with him,telling him about your thinking.If he did not think about it before,he would think about it seriously.If he had,you two will have the same target now,and will be more happy.
