ur bf/gf is one day almost two days without say nothing...

He's probably busy with work, homework , school or something. Stop worrying about it girl. Men's minds are differently wired than ours.

Hi Sweetloveforeve, I apologize but I got a little bit confused with your story here. You say you live far away so I'm wondering, do you live far away from each other or far away from family and friends? If you live far away from each other then I would say there could be a real good reason as to why he isn't in touch with you for a couple of days. If you are together and he is giving you the silent treatment then that is really not good at all. The silent treatment is a form of control and abuse...not good at all.

You said you're far from each other. There must be some reason that you don't know of yet. Just wait. If his reason later on seems not realistic or honest, just observe, and see what happens in the next several days.

I know how concerned you are today. Try to reach out to him; take the initiative to communicate before we can even conclude that he no longer cares for you. He might have a valid reason why he hasn't reached out to you for days now.

hmmm...I don't really know what to say about this, sorry that it is troubling you though. I'm also in a long distance relationship at the moment but if my bf is about to not be able to speak to me for few days or he is going to be busy, then he certainly is going to give me a warning a few days in advance. otherwise, we never had a communication problem. Is he maybe is sulking, or maybe you said something that made him unhappy? Anything could be a reason sweetie :) Have you already tried to contact him instead of waiting for him to contact you?

i think so,but dont be negative thinking first just send message to him and ask where you go last 2 days ago,dont be worry first :)

Surely there is something wrong with it. Two days of silence in the presence of a loved one is not normal. It may not mean he/she does not love you anymore but rather there is certainly some problem deep inside and I believe it is not proper that he/she should just stop talking. He/she should rather talk and express whatever is the reason for that kind of abnormal behavior so that things could be settled.

This thing would piss me off very badly, i know that once i get him pissed off and he never called, a whole day, and i was worried about him, and i was pissed as well, but after he calmed down , he called me and he said he missed me, but i don`t know how is your boyfriend. I must say that the fact that he didn`t called yet, doesn`t mean he doesn`t care, maybe he has some problems, and he didn`t got the time to let you know, there are so many reasons that can be, i hope he will call soon to tell you something about what happend, and why he didn`t called.

right now i'm in the same situation as yours.. sometimes my boyfriend doesn't leave me messages for like a couple of days or even a week.. i haven't spoken to him over the phone yet.. and we're both oceans apart right now.. but i'm not worried when he doesn't reply to my messages as often as i do because i understand the nature of his job... although some say that majority of people having long distance relationship don't work, all i can say is it's all up the people who care about this kind of relationship.. it takes a lot of faith to make this thing work out.. if your bf is not available as of the moment, might as well leave him a message.. if you're in doubt with his feelings for you, might as well confront him.. the best way to keep a long distance love affair is to communicate with the one you love as much as you can in such a way that you can build trust to him and keep your faith alive... that's what i always do whenever my bf's away from home.. we communicate as often as we can, accept the nature of our jobs, keep faithful to each other, trust each other, learn to love each other near or far and trough thick or thin, and pray for each other for a happy and healthy relationship.. hope this helps you clear your doubts.. ^_~ God bless you and your bf

well i think it depends on his reason .. maybe he was just busy or doing some stuff.. im not in a relationship right now but i do experience stuff in a relationship like this before.. i think you just need to trust each other and wait for him to say anything to you.. :)

.....well I don't know about that, because this days my bf and i don't have a communication..but I don't even think that he doesn't care for me.Maybe he just busy right now and he doesn't have much time for me.

..yeah its true that your bf/gf is not caring each other when both of them are almost two days without say nothing..cause if they care they must have time always for both of them even just say hi,..cause it makes a relationship became strong...,:i feel sorry for those did not like my comment..hehehe ..just say your opinion too..love you myloters..

Yeah. Maybe. I'm not letting you down or something but if he cares about you, he maybe having a problem that won't talk with you, Or some stupid stuff like he's having a lot of fun with other girls. :)