is love really really give all of you and receive nothing back?^^

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Portugal
October 1, 2010 6:19pm CST
hi guys^^ do you believe when people say that love is give all of us and receive nothing back?^^ about me i dont believe that bcs love sure is give but also we need to receive care or sooner or later our love decreases. we all need to love and be loved thats why we are with someone. so i dont believe in this saying totally. sure we must give but also if we dont receive we be sad. is true. so for me a true love is give but receive also^^ what about you guys?^^ please share^^
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
2 Oct 10
I definitely hope not! Else, what's the point of having a relationship if you're putting yourself in a situation of becoming someone's slave or there to please the other person? I think it takes two to tango, if you go into a relationship and you give, the other person must also come into a relationship to also give. Therefore, you are mutually giving to each other thus, giving and taking happens.
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
2 Oct 10
of course I agree with you. I'm willing to give what I can afford without expecting anything in return to my family and friends. it is enough if they appreciate it well. But, when it comes about relationship, I really don't bother about bf who doesn't care much for what you do for him.
• Philippines
2 Oct 10
hello! as my favorite line from the movie Moulin Rouge says, "The greatest thing you'll ever learn is to love and be loved in return!" We all need to be loved right? So, why love without being loved in return? I think no matter how much love we give to our partner if they don't love us back, we would eventually fall out of love. We would wake up one day that we don't have love for them anymore. We could never give what we don't have. After we have given all and receive nothing, what more could we give? It's not love when the one you love doesn't love you back. If a man wants that, I guess he needs a love of a mother. Mother's love is unconditional. It does not wait for return. It doesn't expect or demand anything. He must find a mother and not a lover! LOL! happy mylotting!
• Philippines
2 Oct 10
For me it is much better if we give without thing for a change..."or in other words it better to give than to receive"...as long as I'm happy on giving ../but when you give someone you make sure than well not give it all...he might get spoiled...to much is bad...so don't give too much,,,,
• India
2 Oct 10
giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back.Don't expect love in return,just wait for it to grow in their heart,but if it doesn't,be sure it grew in yours well I follow this principle and this really worked for me..
• India
2 Oct 10
Love is nothing but give and take policies. Normally if we love someone else, we in turn also expects some or little love from the person to whom we love. This facts is proved from the love of parents towards child. All parents love their child and they also expects to be loved by their children even at their old age also. Even if a boy loves a girls, he also wants some love to be reflected from their lovers. According to Newtons law "for all action there is equally and opposite reaction", if we love someone else we definitely expects some love from other end. So a true love must be this way. So the concept "love is give all of us and receive nothing back" cannot be agreed totally
• Philippines
2 Oct 10
i believe that if you love a person you will not just give it all.. you need to love yourself first and most specially God.. you need to put God in the center of your relationship for it to work..
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
2 Oct 10
totally agree with you. I mean if you love somebody and you give everything for that relation to work but the other person doesn't do the same this means he/she doesn't really love you, or care for you. a relationship needs two person and they both have to figure a way to make it work. the main part is for them to love each other. I would better say that love means to give all and wait for nothing in exchange, or ask for nothing in exchange. I mean if you know the other person loves you, you don't need to ask him to act in a certain way..or I don't know stuff like that