believe in second chances if someone cheated on you?^^
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
Portugal
October 1, 2010 6:44pm CST
hi guys^^ would you give a second chance if someone cheated on you?^^ about me i would maybe if he was honest with me and said sorry and regrets it. i would take time but i could forgive. but if i found out alone i couldnt and would leave him. what about you guys?^^ would you forgive?^^ please share^^ 
5 responses
@mustafarox (453)
• India
2 Oct 10
well I would have given her a chance to become my friend but to again start a relationship I would think ten times and then also my answer would have been no...
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
2 Oct 10
yes i understand^^ you would forgive and be friends with her but have relationship no^^ yes sure. bcs you would always think maybe she would do that again right? is like you can forgive but forget is not possible. is normal bcs if we love someone and that person cheats is bcs doesnt loves us so much. bcs cheat hurts i guess. so i dont like it i rather tell person if liked someone else^^
@mustafarox (453)
• India
3 Oct 10
Ya that honesty that you don't like her and tell her that I don't like you any more is the best way to end a relationship without hurting anyone..
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
4 Oct 10
yes for sure^^ noone has the right to cheat. so if we dont love person we must say sorry i dont love you anymore and i want to break up. better than being with someone and at same time cheat. that is very bad and very disrespectful to someone that loves us. also is hard to forgive if someone cheats bcs you will always think if she would do that again. is not easy actually is impossible to forget even if forgive.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
2 Oct 10
Second Chance 
... it has never been easy for me to forgive someone.May be i'm a bit odd or whatever.As of me i would be loyal and expecting the same from the other end isn't wrong.So if they had cheated on me then they loose my trust and i cannot be the same with a person who keeps on changing colors in accordance with the situation---so they're out of my life literally.I'm working on my patience levels though.great day.
... it has never been easy for me to forgive someone.May be i'm a bit odd or whatever.As of me i would be loyal and expecting the same from the other end isn't wrong.So if they had cheated on me then they loose my trust and i cannot be the same with a person who keeps on changing colors in accordance with the situation---so they're out of my life literally.I'm working on my patience levels though.great day.@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
2 Oct 10
i understand you^^ is normal that you wouldnt forgive. many people wouldnt. bcs is very hard to see that your bf cheated on you. is very hard to forgive when someone cheats. even you can forgive is like you never can trust completely again. at least thats how i see things. unless is just a kiss and the person tells you. then in this case maybe person really regrets. but still is not easy to accept that.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
2 Oct 10
ahah yes i understand you^^ in cheating is hard to give second chances. if person cheated is bcs didnt love other person. besides can do that again and then you are the one that gets hurt again. so yes better move on and find someone that wont cheat^^ there is many people that dont cheat so you can find like that instead of be with someone you are not sure wont do it again.
@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
2 Oct 10
Absolutely not! I do not believe in second chances if my boyfriend cheated on me.. I don't care if he is sorry and regrets it.. once a cheater could also be a cheater later in the relationship. I would forgive, not forget and move on :)
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
2 Oct 10
yes you would do right thing^^ bcs even if we forgive forget is impossible. you would always think he can cheat again. so why be with a guy like that if we can find one that doesnt cheat and loves only us?^^ you are totally right^^ we can forgive but forget is not possible so move on is the best or relationship would be destroyed sooner or later^^
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
2 Oct 10
ahah yes you are right^^ why stay with someone you cant trust anymore?^^ bcs even if we try if we saw someone cheating we will always have that thought in our head^^ if person arrives late we will think where is he/she? with someone? so is like better move on and find better one that doesnt cheat^^ also is always hard for a guy to forgive cheating^^
