Why Set Goals?
@nereidiane024 (292)
Philippines
October 2, 2010 5:35am CST
just what to share with you my lotters one of the topics in this book. the Andrew Matthews' million seller book on Being happy. Happiness in a Nutshells.
why set goals?
sometimes we pick up the newspaper and read where an accountant has just rowed across the Atlantic in a bathtub, or where a librarian is riding a camel from LA to New York.
we might ask ourselves, "why not take a plane?"
the answer to that is, "if you travel by bathtub or camel, you arrive a whole different person to the one that left". Not only do you reach your destination knowing a lot more about stars and weather and navigation - you know a lot more about yourself, and about your own courage and capabilities.
buying a plane ticket doesn't have the same effect.
likewise, when you set a goal to run a business or a marathon, when you set a goal to get a degree or a promotion, or to learn Chinese, you arrive a different person to the one that started.
that's what "goals" are really about - what they make of us in the process of achieving them. that's why we bother. your friends and your brother-in-law won't always understand this concept!
In a Nutshell
We set Goals not for what we GET, but for what we BECOME.
How about you? how do you set goals? your response is highly much appreciated. :)
1 response
@Graceekwenx (3160)
• Philippines
2 Oct 10
thank you nerediane024 for this input. I never thought of setting goals on this insight. I do have goals as i do have dreams. I set goals because i want to try something challenging as well as doing myself a favor to become a better person. Am i in the right track?
@nereidiane024 (292)
• Philippines
4 Oct 10
thanks graceekwenx! if you only want to try something challenging, and you want to become something into your own self, i guess your in the right track. just put yourself to your goals in life, for you to achieve what you really want to become and not just to get. :)