What do you do if .... ???

@fey008 (295)
Indonesia
October 2, 2010 7:51am CST
Hi My lotters... If you sad or have big problem, where do you go ?
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11 responses
@bmlynn09 (61)
• United States
3 Oct 10
i normally go to my boyfriend or his mom because they make me feel better when i am down. they give really good advice as well.
@fey008 (295)
• Indonesia
4 Oct 10
So, if you not have a boyfriend, where do you go ?
@distorsi (164)
• Indonesia
2 Oct 10
HI Fey ^^ if im bored usually this things i'll do open my laptop, play metal core or heavy metal or metal progressive or all kind of music that have high distortion sounds. then smoking ^^
@fey008 (295)
• Indonesia
4 Oct 10
Woww.... are you sure..??? hehehehe... Since i know smoking is very good for our health... :D
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
2 Oct 10
Find my own solace...usually I'll go window shopping or go to chatrooms online.
• India
2 Oct 10
I usually go to my room and sit there and think about it. I am usually better if i am lonely and i need some time so that i can dwell on such thoughts. Usually it's me only who makes these mistakes. I would try my best to do that problem. If i can't then i would go over to my parents and my friends. Cheers!
@genevy04 (793)
• Philippines
2 Oct 10
hi there fey.. When I get sad, I usually just go into my room and stay there to think and let my emotions burst out.. I don't talk that much to other people because I often prefer to be alone when I have big problems.. I just pray and ask help from God and talk to Him about things that bothers me.. If my problem is that big and I feel very helpless, and if I don't think staying in my room would do me any good, I would go into the church and just stay inside and pray.. How about you fey??
@fey008 (295)
• Indonesia
2 Oct 10
Thank you... Me..?? going to the beach all the days...
@harry89 (2330)
• India
2 Oct 10
Well, when i have some problem then i rather try to solve it by myself but when its related to my friends or family then i go to them and consult them
@savypat (20216)
• United States
2 Oct 10
Most of my problems end up on mylot, the discussion and responses offen give me great advice. But if I had a really big problem, like one that could result in jail time I would look for other advice.
@gdesjardin (1918)
• United States
2 Oct 10
I usually take a walk, or sometimes I go to the bookstore. I like to read, and when I feel sad, I try to pick up a good book, one that will make me laugh. If I have a big problem, I will sometimes go to the bookstore to look for a book that can give me advise. Sometimes I just go there to get my mind off of things. However, most of the time, I hang out here on MyLot. There is always someone here that cheers me up. Have a great day.
@diamania (7011)
• Netherlands
2 Oct 10
Talk to friends, my mother or call an organization to help me out. Could be anything. For instance if I have some problems regarding the new home I'll be having soon I call the organization or my contact person from another organization who helps me out with such things. Or the social worker on school. Or I write things down on paper, so that I know I can forget it for now and that if it's necessary I can read it. It's a good stress relief if you feel uneasy talking to people about certain things.
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
2 Oct 10
Hi Fey, welcome to MyLot :) If I was sad, I usually prefer to stay alone and do nothing in my room. sometimes I just lie down on my bad until I fall asleep. But if I have a big problem, then the first person that I would go and talk to is my love one. What about you by the way?
• Philippines
2 Oct 10
I am really a person who seldom ask for help, as much as I can handle the problem, I would try to solve it myself. Usually if I have a problem, I just stay in my room, thinking what to do next...I never usually share it even with my closest friends. I think it's not good, but that's really me.