your bf/gf dies today, will you kill yourself too?O_O

Portugal
October 2, 2010 8:59am CST
hi guys^^ imagine that your bf/gf dies today. would you kill yourself too? O_O about me me and my bf are very far from each other and we just started our relationship neither at one month yet. so i dont know what i would do. but if i be with him for long long time and he dies and leave me alone i might die too. even not killing myself maybe with sadness will end dying or will have some attack. for me when i love a boy i love really. so if he loves me as much as i love him and i lose him i will die too. what about you guys? :) please share^^
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8 responses
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
2 Oct 10
jesusl....no way. I love my life to much. it would be sad I would be devatated, but I would never kill myself.God gave us our life, and only He has the right to take it. no mather how much I loved someone, I wouldn't do that thing:)
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• Portugal
2 Oct 10
im happy that you wouldnt kill yourself bcs of a guy^^ and yes love is important but there are also other things like leave people that care for us like our family and our parents. many people end with their lives bcs of love. mostly boys. about me i would kill myself if my bf left me and we lived near and shared many things and were always together if i lost him i would.
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• Romania
3 Oct 10
why ? there are many boys in this world?you can always find a nother one. if a relationship ends it's not the end of the world. you have to take it as an experience, to learn from your mistakes and not repeat them in a future relationship, not to kill yourself. you'll realise those things later:).kisses
@alokijon (665)
• Malaysia
2 Oct 10
Life goes on. Yes we do love him/her dearly but it is not our time yet to go. Remember him/her in our prayer. For some religions, killing yourself is a sin.
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• Portugal
2 Oct 10
aw i see what you mean^^ yes life must go on but still is hard if you only have that person right?^^ anyway sure we must pray for the person and in some religions yes is a sin but i think shouldnt be bcs those people are not ok of their heads. they are desperate thats why they do that. even they shouldnt. but still we cant judge them bcs we are not in their shoes.
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@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
2 Oct 10
what would be the point of that? sure you will be sad, but you have to go on.
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@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
2 Oct 10
No I don't think I would. What purpose would it serve? Not to mention I would leave no one to take care of my dogs if I did this, and my other family members would be the ones who would truly suffer for my actions...
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• Portugal
2 Oct 10
yes i understand you^^ ahah your dogs?^^ is nice to know you care so much for your pets^^ me too i love my hamster and i love to give him care and give food to him^^ pets are good friends :) also you are right your family would suffer too much with your actions so im happy that you would care for them and wouldnt end with your life^^ thanks for your answer^^
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@dodo19 (47317)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
3 Oct 10
Yes, I would be really sad, but I don't think that I would be sad to the point of want to kill myself or of actually doing it. Being really sad is really normal. You'd have every right to be sad. However, I don't know if it's really worth killing yourself for something like this.
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• United Arab Emirates
2 Oct 10
I will not die...but i will cry for a few days and then i will set out to fulfill her dream. I know that i cant share with anyone the love i shared with her. But i will definately love everyone and make everyone happy.
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• Portugal
2 Oct 10
aw i see edward^^ you would make her dreams to a reality^^ and would make everyone happy^^ thats good^^ also is sweet that you say you couldnt love noone like you loved her^^ is sweet to see how much you love her :) and yes you dont need to kill yourself to proof you love that person. it just means that there are other people that need you so you must stay^^
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• India
3 Oct 10
i dont think your bf/gf wants you to die once they do... all they want is you to be happy even without them and to live a life that you would if they were there . that only wud give happinss to their soul
• Philippines
3 Oct 10
Losing someone you love is truly painful. It would seem like its unbearable at first but with diversion & giving yourself time to heal & accept what happened will definitely help you move on. There are a lot of people alive trying their best to survive the hardships of life. Think about the irony. And it will also be unfair I guess for those people who love you if you'd give up that way. As a Christian, I believe that God gave us life & only He can take it back from us.