who's wrong? my friend or her ex?
By zmluckyseven
@zmluckyseven (541)
Indonesia
October 2, 2010 11:15am CST
so this is the story i have a friend just called she "S" and her ex "D"
"D" story to me that he send message for "S" and then "S" dont reply it so "D" think that my friend is busy and try to send message again in 2 days ,and then after 2 days "D" send message to my friend and it's weird why my friend mad to "D" ,whereas "D" has a positive thinking to my friend,what's your opinion about this i cant fix this problem
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3 responses
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
2 Oct 10
Did you say D is an ex-boyfriend of S? So maybe S is just trying to ignore him for a while since they have broken up and maybe she is just trying to get over of the frustration still. And also depends what D said in his message as well.
@zmluckyseven (541)
• Indonesia
2 Oct 10
yeah it is but this problem is when the D still in relationship with S i forget to say this ==a sorry,
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
2 Oct 10
Oh, before they broke up? Well, maybe they had an argument that led them to break up too. Or maybe she just doesn't wanna speak to him anymore, otherwise they wouldn't break up. I almost thought maybe she has someone else already as well. who knows, anything could be a reason.
@zmluckyseven (541)
• Indonesia
3 Oct 10
i think so but S tell to me that she still like her first ex,they broke up because a little thing ,0.0
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
3 Oct 10
Honestly, I am quite confused with your story, but I am trying to comprehend it just to give you a proper answer.
I think, they both have mistakes based on the story. First with "D", he is texting "S", for what? Did they break up just recently? If yes, then perhaps the reason why "S" is not responding is because she wants to move on with the break up. She does not want to communicate because the pain is still fresh and that the only way is that to stop communicating with her ex.
"S" is likewise at fault because she is not responding "D". She has no reason to get mad because she is not telling "D" the reason why she does not want to reply on the messages of "D"."D" has the right to know whatever "S" reasons. She has to tell the truth even if it makes "D" hurt.
@zmluckyseven (541)
• Indonesia
4 Oct 10
sorry im confused too to make up the words,'D' texting message to 's' before they broke up,and now 'd' want to make a relationship again with 's' but my friend 's' dont want to, from the story of 's' she said that she still remember her first bf
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@Youreyes4Today (2356)
• United States
2 Oct 10
That could of been after S already decided she was done, that some circumstance before that caused the ignoring of messages. Also D may have been told not to send messages and did anyway.
This is something they have to work out, you can't.
