who will you choose the person you love or the person who loves you?

Certainly love is a complicated phenomenon that all human beings experience. It strikes to anyone unexpectedly. Tackling about the choice whom to love, I would say that it would be wiser to choose the person who loves you more. My opinion to that is simple. It is easier for us to teach ourselves to love someone than teaching the other person to love you back. When you choose someone whom you love more and not sure if he/she loves you same degree as you love him/her is more hard to do. You can never force someone to love you back because to love and be loved has to be a voluntary and willful act. That person should not love you because of pity rather because he/she wants and love you with all his/her heart. If you choose the person who loves you more than you love him/her is best and proper. We are more innate to change and adjust than teaching others to change or adjust.

Yeah.I totally agree with you that love is a very complicated thing.And I think love could be harmful as well.Maybe we can't not avoid being harmed.However,when we love someone,we are happy.Even the one may not love us back,we still enjoy every minutes with her/him.It's really hard to make this choice here.I will choose the one I love I think.

I really have no idea.. but i think the most sure thing is to choose the one you love, if you are afraid to know that she/he does not like you..then i think its much better than not having the courage to show/tell her/him how you feel.. I leave this question to you: Have you ever wondered which hurts the most: saying something and wishing you had not, or saying nothing, and wishing you had?

I choose the person who loves me because I think I can live happily with those girls who loves me and care for me. I doesn’t care that which I am loves because sometimes the situations are not in our hand and the person not loves us who really love we. I think it is matter who loves us. So I always go for those girls who love me.

I think,,.. I'd rather be with the someone I love than to choose the 1 who love's me.. I'd rather wait til she realize that I exist around.. I'd rather had bad times with the 1 I love than to choose someone else.. It's more weigh-full for me if I let myself be free to love that somebody than to be with the 1 I know who love's me but would just hurt him with the fact that I never learnt to love him..

Absolutely love is very complicated than we thought it is. If it's me in this situation I would choose someone whom I know loves me more. For in time when he proves himself I'm sure I'll find it in my heart to love him back even if it's not the same love he's giving me. Give yourself some time to think it over, sometimes it's easy to learn to love a person who loves you than to bear the pain that that one person you love could cause you, simply because he/she can't reciprocate your feelings for his/her heart belongs to someone else...