Is Having A Gay Son a Mistake?

Maybe something he was going through at the time.

Hi Toniganzon, Welcome to Mylot! No, it would not be your fault at all if your son turned out to be gay. If you talk to any gay person, they will tell you that they were born that way and knew they were gay from a very young age. A young boy liking things like dolls or nail polish is not a sign that he is gay. He is just acknowledging that girls get to do a lot of fun stuff that boys don't. I wouldn't worry about it if I were you. And if it turns out that he is, well, it is not your fault.

Wow no I think you are completely over reating. You were teasing your son trying to get him to say yes. That was kind of stupid if your worried you will make him gay. Totally hot hots who are completely straight paint there nails sometimes to look goth or the emo look. Nothing you do will make your son gay. He either will be or he wont be. Thats the way we are designed and there isnt anything you can do about it so relax.

Not a sign, i think you are th one putting gay instincts in him Why would you wanna polish his nails. Hes right hes a guy and he doesnt need such. Thats how i see it. It might definetely be your mistake but then again hes young and you can change that notion asap. Anything you tell him will stay,this is the learningg phase for him remember. Be careful with the way you play with your son my friend,I know you want ihm to grow up looking fine and promising.So you just have to do the positive things.

My opinion would be that he is only six so right now and he is curious about many things and they look up to their parents so they might want to imitate what they see you do. But it is never a mistake in your part if he turns out gay which we wont know yet. All we can do is love our children and with love and guidance from your part he will turn out to be a good decent human being which is all we can ask of them, all the rest shouldn't matter.

No. It is not yours neither your son's mistake to be gay. Anyway, he's not really gay yet. He's a kid, children are naturally curious with all things. I have a nephew who likes putting on lip stick when he was around that age, and today he has a girlfriend turned out he's straight after all. your son perfectly knows whats for boys and whats for girls to have and play with.

Don't worry, he's just a kid who is still just curios of many many things. He is still to young for us to be able to tell whether he's going to be a gay or straight. And it is not the mother, nor anyone's mistake is someone turns to be a gay. that is just a normal preference, but if you are worried more then try to teach him and show him more things about what boys do.

NO its not your mistake if it happens that your kid would turn out to be a gay someday. I'd say it isn't anybody's mistake also.. If this happens, try hard to accept the fact and accept the personality of your kid because most of all, you, as a parent, should be the one to understand what he might be going through.. But I guess this early you don't have to worry because maybe he just gets too curious about things and get confused also.. Just go on and treat him the way you used to. If he happens to be a gay, you'll know it I'm sure.. But now, it's too early to tell.. Not unless he loves playing with dolls..And loves dressing up like a girl.. Don't worry too much dear.. I'm sure if ever it happens you'll understand..