is hard for you to move on?^^

it has been 8 months now that i had talked to the girl i love. we were very understanding but because of afraid of loosing her i never proposed and one night i was badly drunk and my friends proposed her on my behalf and that was the time after which i had not talked to her. i then got a psychological disease called conversion disorder. but i don't want to move on i am still waiting for her and will wait forever

i personally have never gotton over anyone i don't know how to move on at all. but i have found a way to cheat that feeling of lost and pain and it is to forget thought i forget all the times places, and movies that i have seen with that person also i don't feel like i lost anything because i never even knew then. this is not good by the way as to i never know what day it is any more and they are years missing from my memory. but if you have someone that will always be there even if its as a friend that loves you and you love them it helps you hold on to things even when they hurt cause its worth it

It is hard but not impossible. I have been always looking at the positive side in life and it has been motivating me to move ahead. I did feel low when i broke off with my last gf...but i did move on with the help of my friends.

good question...it's horribly hard at least for me. we broke up almost a year ago and I remember evey part of his body...his eyes, his lips, everything :(

is it hard for you to move?............ in my experience about this situation, yes its really hard for me to move on, specially girl we dont know how to be happy at that, how to forget him..... most of the gir cry when there bf left them, and they always say 'i can't move on, i can't live witout him.but hat is not true me i always say,he is not the right guy for me, and i can eassilly forget him and i will try to open my heart,and love again if there's someone love's you.

I am still trying to move on. I haven't forgotten my ex and the feelings I have for him. I try to forget, silently praying that I'd have amnesia, and then take it all back. Problem is, I have a photographic memory which makes forgetting so hard. I promised to myself I would not cry for him anymore but I still do. Sometimes I read a story totally unrelated to our relationship, but the tears just come. The worst part is that when I hear the songs on my iPod and when I take a look at my surroundings, I just remember it all. I don't want to throw away the stuff we bought together or the ones he gave me, it'd be such a waste. We've been separated for almost a year now, but the pain still remains. I wonder how long it'd take me to move on. I don't even feel like getting into another relationship.

Well no lately as I have been with my husband for a while, dont really remember heartbreak now, apart from when I was alot younger, like 13 years old... I had a crush on some guy, we were together and then we broke up I thought my life was over. But now its a whole different story, but I know if my relationship broke down I would be so heartbroken

Hello SLF, It is not always easy to moved on when we lost someone. It takes time for me to moved on and face life again. It doesn't mean that i confined my self in a world of loneliness,but,it's not easy to forget the moments that i shared with that someone. But,i always try my best to let go and accept reality in life,that,nothing is forever,but the word "forever" alone. Have a good day always

Hi dear, We can see there are people jumping through the circles. And there is a joke on it, jump, jump, jump through the circle and finally jump without circles. Lots of different experience ans now whatever is infont is acceptable and all look alike. But in general and as a general priciple, if we really love with some one each other, it is hard to get apart. The real love is pure and it is as good as 22 crt. gold. If it fell into dirt and dirt fell into it, nothing will happened to it. Only people will change the minds. If someone really got love, why need to change it? Or before going for it, think about 10-20 times whether it will go smoothly or before get into the affair, speak frankly and be together forever. Don’t you think so? Many are not like that, they will change it just like how we change the shirt in the evening. May be it is the time for it and no one care of it. The value is getting deteriorated and the view on such matters considered no importance. We can see so many divorces in these days? Why? When I think of such things, I really feel so sad about it. We are in the mid of countless people that many thoughts are around. So change the partner is not having much importance to the people. If one loses, someone else will fill it with. So who cares and who have the problem in losing our dear ones??

hOnestly, yes! it's haRd fOr me tOmOned On..especially when thta thing happen is nOt easy fOr me tO fOrget everything. .even if I enjOy myself like having fun, .it's still in my mind, .when I'm alOne I always remembered..because nOt all the time yOu can pOssibly enjOy yOur self. .it suddenly cOme Out intO your mind..

Is it hard to move on? Yes, it's quite hard to move on specially if it's a one way traffic. However, we must try.

Well there was time when I was a killer I had so many girlfriends I only don't remember but I only liked them not loved them so I didn't feel any thing but ya if now something happens I will almost die...

no, im not a guy, but i had to answer your post. moving on can sometimes be hard. ive been heart broken so many times, i couldnt tell you the exact number, unlike you could. every person is different, but that doesnt mean they are the right one for you. the longest relationship i was in was for 3 years. met him in high school. had a beautiful baby boy, which is 3 now, together, and had everything you could think of. Unfortunately, he cheated on me. Got married while we were still together. You go tto understand, i was head over heels about him from the moment i met him, and for him to cheat on me broke my heart. i found out they were married when his wife came to the house and said she was there to take her step son to the park. I was like, excuse me! she showed me their marriage certificate. i as just surprised that he was still living with me and screwing around with me. i didnt get over him until after a year after the break up. sometimes its harder on people. sometimes its not. i guess it just depends.

Yes, its hard to move on especially when you really love that person. And He is part of your daily livings...I'm experiencing this right now....Moving on is very hard..

It is definitely hard for me to move on. Because, I really love the person so much. And letting go and moving on or losing that person is really hard. When we love, we cant just get over that person. Especially when the cause of the break up is just shallow and very immature. I had an Ex BF, he left me without even giving our relationship a closure. He just left me, and went for another girl. Every time I see him, I really feel awkward and I want to talk to him. Not wanting him back but I want a closure because He left me hanging when he broke up with me. I loved him so much, and the reason why I haven't completely moved on was because we did not have a proper closure. I guess if we can talk, and say our goodbyes properly from then on, I can totally say I have completely moved on. Moving on is not simply forgetting someone but also healing.

I am very emotional like you.i dont cry but feel very bad when someone breaks my heart.its very hard for me to move on and forget all the things specially when you were involved in the person who broke your heart.i try to get busy in other things like reading books,music,chatting with friends and i try not to think about past.after few months i get out of it completely.Friends really help you out in this.when i had break up with my x gf.they were the one who used to make me laugh.they used to make me understand that whatever happens,happens for good.they used to make me understand that the person who broke your heart never deserved you.they used to cheer me up.but if you are alone in the room, thinking about past then its hardly possible to move on.