stronger distance relationship: how?
By geonelynn
@geonelynn (369)
Philippines
October 3, 2010 1:24pm CST
aside from having a constant communication with your loved one abroad, what are some tips/suggestions that you can give to spice up and maintain a loving and lasting relationship?
please give some..
5 responses
@Ramaditya (1227)
• Indonesia
3 Oct 10
You have to trust each other. Never consider a little battle or problem as big one. Stay calm, and make sure you always put your partner inside your heart.
@narthan (325)
• India
3 Oct 10
sending good wishes through greeting cards is one of the best way to spice up the realtion. You can even write letters expressing your love and your care.
sending gifts is also one of the ways of keeping the relationship very active even though we stay far.
@geonelynn (369)
• Philippines
3 Oct 10
i've told my boyfriend about that, that even though everyday communication is possible through technology, i also wanted us to go the old way..a snail mail.
thanks!
@ravend (658)
• Malta
3 Oct 10
Accept all along that the contact will be limited, that you will be frustrated, and that your relationship is different than others'.
Than move on. Trust him. Let yourself be trusted, don't cheat.
And invest in relationships wherever you are.
@wiwa05 (230)
• Philippines
4 Oct 10
we've been together now for 7 years with my bf, we've experienced long distance relationship for 3 years... what made us stronger is our faith and trust in God and to each other. Trust in him, without it, you'll always have an unending fight and that'll leads you both to decide to break up. Don't think negatively and don't be paranoid thinking that he has another woman on the other place coz that definitely won't make good in your relationship. Be strong and keep believing in your relationship... If something bad will happen, then move on. Be optimistic and face life as it should be.
Good day! God bless! ^_^
@ElaineSpencer (152)
• United States
5 Oct 10
My man is in Memphis, and I'm in Kansas City. For my birthday, I took a bus down to be with him and his family for two weeks. Ultimately, it was hard for both of us when it came time for me to leave, but we will treasure those memories forever. Visiting him, be it a month or a couple of days, can help build your relationship and keep it thriving.