If I take her on a date what would be my expense????

India
October 3, 2010 4:16pm CST
Atlast she agreed to go on a date with me.Its really a happy moment for me.I am very delighted to have a fun and enjoying session with her day after tomorrow.At the same time I am not able to figure out the expenses that would happen.I really need your help since I am on my first date.Well I have planned to go for a movie,park and restaurant.Should I add any thing else to my schedule.Share me till then baabyeee
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16 responses
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
4 Oct 10
I would suggest bringing enough money for the movie and restauraunt, as well as enough for a flower, or coffee afterward. I'd have atleast $150.00 in my pocket ready if I were you, lol. Though then again sometimes you dont' need much money at all, I am not sure how the relationship is between the two of you as I've seemed to miss the other discussions you've made, or so I assume.
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@ravend (658)
• Malta
3 Oct 10
Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww good luck sweetheart... Make sure that you have time to talk and get to know each other!!!! That's what matters. Good luck, really. Ciao
• India
5 Oct 10
Well it is something that I need to keep in my mind.I go silent and talk very less more often when she is around.I should not do this on the date.Otherwise it will make me loose my confidence.Any ways thanks for making that wonderful point.Have a nice day
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
4 Oct 10
Hmm, i would of course suggest you to be ready with the expenses of all the plans you have made. of course, she might offer to pay but i am sure you'd like not to let her pay. he he :D i think taking her to the movies and a dinner would be fine. If your place has a reserved seating movies.. i suggest you already get that so you both do not have to line up for a long time waiting to get tickets... reserve also a nice place where you both can dine and have a talk... does not have to be expensive.. some place just decent, and cozy... =) goodluck!
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@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
4 Oct 10
I think it is depend on you because where you going for date. I think if you don’t want to expense more then I think you may go to a cheep restaurant and their you can talk to your girlfriends. I think it is the good way to avoid expense more. And your total expenses would be not more than 200-300 rupees in our Indian currency. I want to tell you an interesting thing about me. When I was go to date with a girl then I go to railway station's AC Waiting rooms. Yes we talk their and no one disturbed us. And we talk freely. I think it's a very good incident of my life and I never forget it.
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• United States
3 Oct 10
I actually think that is plenty. I'm glad you are happy are are taking someone places. I used to go on dates, but then I decided to just wait until later in life to get in a relationship due to time limitations. But if you ever run out of money, try taking her to a beach, desert, or forest to enjoy nature. And you guys will end up spending a lot more time together. Have a good day
• India
4 Oct 10
Hello Friend I think you are right.Going to beech or forest or a zoo would be a good option.Since it will not cost me that heavily moreover I will get enough time to spend with her.Definitely I will reconsider my plans.Any ways thanks for those wonderful words from you.Have a nice day.
• Philippines
4 Oct 10
well almost everything in this case is your expense sir, since you asked her out. you have to pay for the food, the transport (if you dont have a car), the movies, etc etc. but dont worry its just for the moment ^^
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@Hvaniday1 (550)
• Malaysia
4 Oct 10
you can't plan any, it will come naturally. Just be yourself and you'll have a great fun.
• India
4 Oct 10
Calculate how much expenses you are sure to incur while on the movie, park and restuarant. Like tickets, snacks, things to pass the time etc. The restuarant is tricky as you are not aware how much you two will eat. Based on your final calculation add a very good safety margin. Good luck and wish you a very happy date ;-)!!
@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
4 Oct 10
Wow, all that on the first date. For me, my first date was lunch at a restaurant. I just want to talk to him, nothing more. I only want to know more about him. I don't fancy going out at night with a man I just know, so lunch was all I could agree for. We did end up dating for quite awhile. Anyway, since you already plan all that, I guess that's more than enough. Good luck on the first date.
• India
5 Oct 10
Thanks for appreciating my plans for the first date.I am happy to hear about your sweet date.Anyways thanks again for your participation in my thread.Have a nice day
@libramie (562)
• Philippines
4 Oct 10
I'll think, loitering in the park or in the baywalk watching the sun setting down then dine in the restaurant are enough for the first date. Then another place or theme on the next. Step by step method in knowing somebody is my suggestion, don't do all at once.
• India
4 Oct 10
Very true indeed. This will allow him to determine whether she is good enough for the expenses ;-)!!
• Philippines
4 Oct 10
Hello... Going on a date does not need to be very expensive. Though a romantic dinner would do and good places would encourage her to spend time with you. Expenses may vary on the place you wanted to go to. First, make up your mind. Prepare carefully and try to find out good restaurants with good food no matter if expensive or not. Second, know the schedule of the movies that may interest her. Third, never forget to ask what she wants and where she wanna go to. If you think you can't manage to be in the place the she mentions to you, you suggest the place where you think would be at your advantage (financially). Be suggestive in anything you say. Never say anything if she doesn't have any choice. Go on a date with enough money depending on your plan. Know the place. Know how much the food costs. Know the means of transportation etc. But for most women, a more simple date is preferable. Getting too tired on dates isn't fun. Good Luck! ^_^
• India
5 Oct 10
Thanks my friend for that whole hearted response from you.I think you are much experienced in these field.Well I will definitely keep those things in my mind .Any ways thanks again for coming up with such a wonderful response.Have a nice day.
@gjax57 (897)
• United States
4 Oct 10
personally I think dinner and then a long walk in the park would be nice. If this is your first date with her you dont want to be wasting time in a movie when you can be using that time to get to know one another..just my thoughts...ENJOY!!
• India
4 Oct 10
Hi saurav....congrats...u dont need plenty of bucks..but enough to carry both of u around planned destinations,restaurants,movies...but u need to know each other so better opt for cozy,comfortable and less crowded places...having plenty of greenry in sight...cool breezes...lakes...parks.. helping both u to be among ur self ...but never ever go to completly lone locations..to avoid local nuicence...its dangerous...250/USD...some confidence...will to win...and u r done....goodluck.
• Italy
4 Oct 10
Well depending on where you live a movie roughly costs anywhere between 7 - 12 USD each, plus popcorn/sodas/other snacks about 15 - 20 USD for the both of you; As far as dinner goes, depending on what you are looking for, it should cost anywhere around 40 - 60 USD (includig drinks/tip/etc). I would also suggest some flowers, make her feel special. Everything should cost around 100 USD, keep in mind that the total cost can vary greatly depending on where you live.
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
4 Oct 10
In a girl's point of view, I think, that is sufficient enough on first date. /save the other events on a second date or third date. Going to a movie is nice then going to the restaurant or depending on the time. Going to the park is also good or perhaps go somewhere where you can do some fun like ocean park, game zones, etc. Never let your date spend anything on first date even when she asks to share. It is your total expense as a gentleman since you are the one who asks for it.
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
4 Oct 10
Don't be a miser when going out on a date with a woman u like. I'm not asking u to splurge on her, but at least treat her to a decent meal, make her comfortable. Going on a date may not neccesarily be expensive as long as u know how to entertain her, that's the most important part of a date. If she's happy with your company, she won't mind it at all.