Why love is so painful when you loss it?

I think it is just right to feel pain when you love someone because it just shows how true your feelings are to a person. They say, allowing someone to love you means allowing them to hurt you as well.

This really a difficult question, my friend. I also find the answer, why? Maybe because it is connected to our heart and we are human being that feel hurt. Love is a wonderful thing and this doesn't mean that we are happy always when we find love... Have a nice day!

maybe because you are really in move with the person

I think the reason why love hurts was of expectation of a blissful life. In one way or another, you have expected that you would end up with this person for the rest of your life and live happily ever after but then something comes along the way and everything has changed. The love that one had felt had disappeared and you realized that all you are left of is nothing. I guess the true meaning of love is that love is a decision, that no matter what happens both of you will stick together; and if the two of you decided to stick together, there would be no sorrow nor pain; only challenges that both of you can enjoyingly fight together.

I think, it's very painful to lose someone you love, because in one way or another, that person became a friend to you. Anyone who lose a friend could really be hurt, specially when both of you shared moments together only you and him had. It's painful because the one whom you thought that would take care of your heart is now a stranger, someone who broke your trust. It's even more painful perhaps because you have learned to love that person regardless of all the discouragement you saw. I guess, it's also because you expect that person to be a part of you for the rest of your life and yet, he's now gone.

I thinking that love is painful because it was some part of you and you lose it. You live with her, you build her, you take care ot her and save her.. and in other moment she's gone. That's painful..

You feel the pain and sorrow because you have invested time and feelings for this person. Most of the time you become sad whenever you remember the good memories you've shared with this person and that you will never get to experience that anymore because you broke up.

Once I heard people say that love just like the condiments, people can taste different food in different taste, like bitter, sweet, sour, and mixed of all these. Maybe love just like what we taste our food too. You might experience different feelings. You fall in love in happiness, because you care that particular person so much, and that person care you back. Once this relationship is broken, and you still care about that person, and meanwhile, you knew that person no longer care about you, you might feel lonely, and your heart is fallen apart. Because everything you expected is not working out.

love means pain, at least once in life. I wish I hadn;t met him, but maybe this it's a thing from which I need to learn something...the weird thing it's that i don't know what I need to learn...maybe not to fall in love with idiots

Why love is so painful??? Maybe its because you give 100% into that relationship. More of your time devoted to your love ones and expecting that one day you will end up with him.

It does hurt to lose someone. But try to embrace the facts and move on. I'm sorry for your loss. It will get better in time.