an easy to breaking up with a guy or a girl

there's no easy way in breaking up with someone. i also find it hard to break up with someone before,but if things really won't work out,no matter how we tried to fix things,it will always not make us happy.so better be free when you know you will not be happy with that someone. same as the person involved. being away from each other can help us to grow and realize things ahead of us both.if we really are meant to be,only God knows it all and if we really felt we still loved them,it will just happen however we forced ourselves not to love them again... all things happen for a reason...

When the relationship is of no value, so is the person. I do not think that it is nice breaking up with a person whether you are the victim or the person that breaks. It bring no value, and no significance. A relationship starts with respects, receiving the person for who she/he is. When we are in a relationship, we hold on to it till the day god set us apart. No one is perfect, but it is how we make the person perfect.

oh you broke up by a text message? thats too bad really. the guy for sure was heartbroken. the best way to break up is face to face even it can hurt the person. yes sure by text is too easy but if we really cared for that person in the past we should have courage and tell in his face. is just that me i would hate if a guy left me by text. that would break my heart really. only you can do that if you have a long distance relationship and cant see each other near but still can use a cam and say in person's face anyway. but about if you were with him really break up like that is too bad :( the best way is always say in person face so he could see that you didnt mean to hurt him. with that text he might think that you dont care for his feelings :( at least with face to face breaking up you can see the other person honesty and feel a bit better after all.

hello lynpiochy! well for me what you have done to him is so heartbreaking and painful. there's no closure for both of you. it's just you ended it like that. you left him hanging with lots of questions in his mind, how, why, what? if you would be on his shoes, what would you feel? im not against you neither in your ex bfs side. i even did not your reason behind why you ended your relationships with him. but i felt pity over your ex boyfriends feelings. but yes, it did happened to me, and when i broke up with my first boyfriend, he deserves it. for a woman to be cheated twice was so painful. but when i got myself back, when i decided to be with him, i had my sweet revenge. i broke up with him, and he's crying over me. but that moment, i felt no love at all. maybe because i was pissed off in him. well, if i had cry, i cried when those times i knew he cheated me and my tears runned dry when i broke up with him. breaking up is easy, if it is for the sake of ending up your no future relationship.

Well only a person can answer this question if he has involved himself/herself in any relation. I have already been a relation but i never felt it that i am going to breaking up. It is just the amount of trust you have on your partner. And it is good to have good understanding between each other before you put yourself into any relation... But todays new thought is that if a couple get into a relation then because of their misunderstanding and when they get separated it because of their understanding.

i personally have never did the breaking up and for the most part it has sucked i cryed sometimes but there was once i guess it was because we were more friends than dating when we droke up it was just that and we kept talking about something else right after like nothing happened lol but that's not often that that happeneds

Indeed there's no easy way to break up with someone. But I often wonder why doe we need to break up with someone who we care about? I honestly don't believe that love would fade, I think it wasn't there in the first place that's why a relationship doesn't work. Because if it were true, people could work it out, regardless the circumstance. I am no expert really and I broke up with someone because he had someone else in his life. He became weak and made the easy way out, he didn't break up with me, he replaced me. I don't think there's really some way to break up on someone without anyone getting hurt. Regardless if it's through text, call, or in person someone would always be hurt in the end.

You just say the plain truth. Better a short pain now than a long term life of sadness.

Hmm... well its really sad..to break..up all of a sudden.. you let it go off slowly and then fade away in smoke.. its must be hard on the part of ur Complanion to see a breakup message on the phone..its just the shows the coward face of you facing hard to face the truth.. so console her...and try to be friends.. and let her know ur its not workin out.. but we can still be gud frnds :)

Most of my relationships ended with a text message. The exes were usually not brave enough to tell it to my face. After receiving the text message from them I usually confronted them on that day or the next day. I really hate it when someone breaks up with you through text, email or through chat. As for my experience I always confronted the girl personally, although it is hard at least she knows that I respect her even though things didn't work out between the two of us.

when breaking up with someone,you will undoubtly hurt him.once,i broke up with my bf by sending him a letter,and another time,i did it by sending text message.i can't agree with you more that talking face to face with someone is such a cruel thing,the one may get hurt a lot.so in my opinion,breaking up with someone in a euphemism way is really necessary.

I've never broken up with someone. I don't really have time for relationships anymore. But I've been hurt once. I don't think there is a point to relationships. I believe that everyone should just wait until they reach the age at which they want to get married. At that point it is simple to find love, since both partners can spend more time together. Life should be making oneself better, not making others better; who have the potential to hurt you. Also, as adults, both will be mature and not break up for mediocre conflicts. Have a good day.

I have been in a relationship for a year and I also experienced to be a heart broken for me there is no easy way to break up with someone especially if you have both feelings for each other.. it hurts to break someone's heart it takes a lot of time to recover and to move on!!