I wonder why im always like this...

Mee too. Sometimes I want to write down my comment about something, but all my thought had been written by another person hahaha... Another time I feel that I want to write something, but my idea seem unqualified to read by others so I canceled it. Or one time I feel one of the title interesting, but after I open the page, the writing so long and make me think "Wow, its to long, I better look for the shorter one" hahahaha But even I don't write anything to comment an issue, I still open Mylot everyday because I enjoy every discussion here. Happy Mylotting !! (^_^)v

Sometimes its just hard to express one's feelings. Its just we think that if we do this or that that we would get judge by other people. that is why I envy people who can speak their minds. And those people are the one's successful.

That is common. I do have dry spells with writing as well even if I've been doing this for a long while now. You see, when you start topics, it's not just copying what other people are saying, you're actually sharing your life's questions and thoughts with other people and waiting for them to react or share theirs. This is why I don't often open topics myself. I'm just not good at inventing something that I haven't experienced or talking about something that doesn't fully interest me. I am the type of person who reacts or response. I find it easier because there's already a ground topic to talk about. One way that I usually do to open topics is by simply noticing what has transpired during my day out or day at work. Whatever 'interesting' thing that happened - be it a joke told to me by someone, or something that I want to share with friends with, I usually list them down. Then, when I have time to do mylot, I open those topics here. Dont' worry about it, you'll get the hang of it soon. Just don't force it when ideas don't come. Go to other sites, do something else, then when you're inspired to write once again, then come back. Good luck! And welcome to mylot!

Hello, This is a typical problem with introverts. Also this has something to do with your memory. We all have a limited capacity of memory. So we can't always rely on that. Whenever you think about something to talk about, just write it down in a few lines. Use your notebook. Also devote a particular time of the day to write down all your emotions, complains, opinions, anger, sadness etc. Just write them down without worrying about literature. This will release extra burden from your memory. You'll also find it easier to have conversations or to participate in discussions. It will simply make you more efficient in real life. Thanks. God bless you.

I'm just like that too when I want to start a new post or discussion. At the end of the day, I only start a new post like once a week. But to be honest, I seem to enjoy more in Participating in other people's discussion. I love reading different views on someone else's post. Good to hear that you are enjoying giving out your opinion too :)

I have a blog. I write just for fun. It's funny, relevant, and a bit narcissistic. A lot of people think I'd make a great writer - the kind that publishes novels or short stories. I don't think so. It's mostly because I write for myself, not for an audience - which I know is kind of useless. But it makes me happy. I wouldn't want to work in a magazine, newspaper, or any place that requires me to submit written work on time.

Even if you don't have a talent for mylot you can still start and respond to disscussions. I don't start discussions. I did at the start and started 10 but then just stuck to responded because other peoples discussions are far more interesting and I prefer responding.